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...See more My bf and I have been together for over a year now, and it’s been a constant struggle with intimacy, sex, and our love languages. We’re intimate maybe once or twice a month, on a good month, and otherwise we just feel like roommates. We’ve had this conversation a million times, and every time he assures me he loves me and wants to have more sex with me, wants to me more intimate and expressive. But he doesn’t. We don’t cuddle, don’t hold hands, anytime we kiss it’s an awkward peck on the lips. He’s told me seeing me naked doesn’t really turn him on. I feel unwanted and undesirable and he knows this. I’ve tried doing anything to get him interested, send him sexy pics, talk dirty, ask what he likes, what he wants, try new positions. He’s not receptive to any of it, but insists he wants to do more with me and that he’ll put more effort in. It’s been over a year and we’ve gotten nowhere. He doesn’t want to break up, but refuses to do anything to help this relationship and I’m at the point where I’m mentally broken but don’t what to do because I can’t afford to live anywhere but with him at the moment so breaking up and moving on isn’t an option, but I can’t keep going every single day wishing he would just act attracted to me. I don’t know if he has a hormonal issues, a trauma issue, or what but it seems like I’m the only one suffering from this and he’s fine letting things continue the way they are.

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