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42 yo male single straight losing touch with freinds
Depression Support / by terriblydown
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 November 23rd, 2017
...See more as the title suggests. I have(had) a good circle of friends, but I am the only unmarried one left, and I am getting left behind. More and more I see FB post of stuff happening and I'm not invited. When I happen to catch someone on a text or something, I get an invite, but I feel if I'm not putting myself there, I am being forgotten. I have known many of these people since high school, some a bit less, but most of these freindships are 15 years. I am even a godfather to one of the kids. Recently though, I have been excluded more and more, and it hurts. I have looked at my behaviour, but it's been ok as I can see, and when I do get to hang out with everyone, it's hunky dory, but then I get nothing unless I invite myself. I feel sad that I am being left out like this. I wonder if it's to do with the kids ages, when they where little it was all good. Have I done something? I can't think of anything. I have no family, these guys have always been my rock, but I am losing them, for reasons I cannot gather, and when I brought it up with the closest of my freinds, they say I am imagining it, but I went 3 months without any contact from them before I once again called to see what was up. I keep looking at myself to see what I might have done, and as I said, I sounded some out, hoping for some honest feedback, but nothing. Not sure what more I can do, and I feel so alone now.
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