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thebibear1988
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Straight married man with sudden urge
Relationship Stress / by thebibear1988
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March 21st, 2024
...See more So I’ve been married to my wife for 14 years and I am attracted to her sexually but recently I’ve had several urges to want to BE with a man I know my wife could never accept or understand it and I have considered doing it without her knowing. I don’t want to be that person and cheat on her any advice or similar experiences please share 
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Shame and confusion with things I like sexually
Relationship Stress / by thebibear1988
Last post
March 21st, 2024
...See more I identify as a straight male I’ve been married to my wife for 14 years and I’ve never been open enough to tell her my deepest sexual turn ons and things I do in private. I absolutely love wearing women’s underwear and lingerie and have since like 15 I’m in my 30’s now my parents went out of town I was home alone and did a try out in one of her thongs and a bra and the taboo mixed with the feminine energy it gave me was unexplainable and I’ve done it in private since when I got married I just used my wife’s underwear and lingerie. I’ve never had sex with a man but casually watch gay porn in private I’m really not attracted to men overall except my wife’s twin brother I guess because I’ve known him forever and being sexual with him would just not make me feel bad I know if I ever have any opportunity to do anything sexually with him I’d without hesitation have is pants off and his part in my mouth you’d think I’ve been sexually active with men a lot. I guess that makes me bisexual and I don’t care, my pain comes from loving my wife and knowing that I can never include her in any of these things I love because of her traditional views it depresses me because I don’t care about any sexual fantasies she ever would want to try I’d experience it with her. I would appreciate any suggestions or support from anyone with advice thanks
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