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Straight married man with sudden urge

User Profile: thebibear1988
thebibear1988 March 19th, 2024

So I’ve been married to my wife for 14 years and I am attracted to her sexually but recently I’ve had several urges to want to BE with a man I know my wife could never accept or understand it and I have considered doing it without her knowing. I don’t want to be that person and cheat on her any advice or similar experiences please share 

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver March 21st, 2024

@thebibear1988 Thank you for sharing bear,  you are experiencing some difficult feelings and desires that are causing you distress.Feeling conflicted about wanting to act on desires that may not align with your values or relationship can be challenging. What aspects of being in a committed relationship mean the most to you?

Please know you have all of us here to listen to and support you. You are not alone in this. You can also explore Relationship support group chat to share and get more support.