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hi! :) i have anxiety and OCD, so i'm experienced in dealing with both.
i'm here to help you through hard times, and to make sure you aren't alone in the process!
 

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relationship anxiety?
Anxiety Support / by thelonelyheartsclub
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July 11th, 2019
...See more hi, i'm seventeen and i currently am dealing with a lot of abandonment issues that have come on from past relationships, and an insecure attachment style. i feel like i overanalyze every little thing my partner does and i feel like i drive my friends and family crazy because i'm always asked for reassurance that every thing is going to be ok. this kid tells me he wants to marry me, we've been together for a while and i really truly love this kid, it's just small things off-put my anxiety (things he cant help, such as taking a while to respond) or i silently struggle with feeling like he's just telling me these things so that A. he can get in my pants, or B. because he doesn't want to be honest with his true feelings, which i know both of those things aren't the case. however, i can't erase that feeling of never really knowing how he feels, even after he reassures me that he loves me, it's like my brain is constantly picking out things that might allude to him lying, or not loving me anymore. this feeling is so intense that i rarely can think about anything else. it's like every moment i'm worried about, "what if he dies", or "what if he gets in trouble and then he cant see me anymore" or "what if he's actually cheating on me", or "this is gonna hurt so bad when it ends" he says he wants to love me forever and i want to believe him because i've never cared for anyone more in my entire life. this kid is all i can think about and this vulerability is so intense and terrifying and i just dont want to feel alone in this any longer. i'm tired of people thinking i'm crazy, for at this point i feel like i am.
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