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thoughtfulCircle3779
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Feeling distant
Relationship Stress / by thoughtfulCircle3779
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 November 17th, 2021
...See more Hey guys, so i need to vent and also find a solution for my problem so please help. Whenever I make friends i always feel left out, I blame myself for this because I'm always distant and I don't engage very often with people, like when I'm with a group of people and they talk I don't talk very much,i laugh when people make jokes, talk when they talk to me but generally i just observe silently. But recently i have been feeling like i'm left out all alone, everyone made their close friend and I don't have one, i have a big group of friends and i like them all they're cool and fun but like i said everyone found their close friend so what should i do to fix my situation? And to clarify, i made this group of friends during online school, we talked via messenger, Instagram etc. and Again I didn't talk much with them because i hate texting lol, so now we're back at university and everyone is closer to someone except for me. Also I always like to socialize and make new friends but I end up connecting with them on a skin deep/shallow levels, nothing deep or meaningful and all and i hate it. for conclusion( because i talked a lot lol): i need to find a solution for myself to stop being so distant. How do i do this?
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