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toughBlueberry
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts3,481 Forum posts117 Forum upvotes499 Current upvotes499 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2026 Member sinceAugust 3, 2018
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My name starts with "tough" but it's auto generated. I didn't think of it that much back then, I'm actually very soft and loving.
Getting better at loving, softening and being. One day at a time, one step at a time.





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Today is my Birthday
General Support / by toughBlueberry
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 December 2nd, 2025
...See more This is my birthday today. I'm feeling really happy. I'm so grateful people in the special events room wished me happy birthday and celebrated me. 💖❤️🌹 Thank you so much for your love and kindness. 
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Need some love today
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 May 4th, 2025
...See more Today is hard and I need some love please. No advice, I need supportive and comforting words. Thank you <3
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Need love today
General Support / by toughBlueberry
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 December 30th, 2024
...See more Today is extremely hard. I need a bit of love, it's really hard to do. Today I need some extra love. No advice please, thank you.
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I need love
General Support / by toughBlueberry
Last post
 April 23rd, 2024
...See more I don't feel well. I need a bit of love. I can't even imagine talking to someone, I feel so overwhelmed. Please send me some love. Thank you.
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Imagine a person sear your heart when you seek support
General Support / by toughBlueberry
Last post
 September 20th, 2023
...See more Then squeal like a birthday girl when she receives support from you.
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I need a bit of love today please
General Support / by toughBlueberry
Last post
 August 25th, 2023
...See more Just a bit of love, today the extra love outside of myself is needed.
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Yesterday was so nice
General Support / by toughBlueberry
Last post
 September 6th, 2022
...See more I knew I'd be absorbed if he responds. And I was. So I let myself be absorbed for a while, for about a day, letting my daily worries disappear. In the middle I got anxious when he had to attend to something. I felt like he won't write back. It was too difficult for me to concentrate but with trial and error, I did yoga and meditation, gradually had a nice time with myself and then checked text. He did text back. And after waiting a while, we talked even more, and he went to do something, really difficult time to wait, then came back and we talked again. It was satisfying in the end that he didn't keep me hanging before leaving. So I had a good night's sleep. I was anxious to text him because it doesn't end well. But it ended well yesterday and I'm grateful it didn't take me down a guilt trip to text someone who isn't healthy for me. It was nice, pure calmness. :).
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Well I got demoted
Self-Harm Recovery / by toughBlueberry
Last post
 August 23rd, 2022
...See more It happened at last. I slap.ped myself today. When I heard they talked mean behind my back I felt like slapping them. Today I slap.ped myself. My classmate 10 years ago said he felt like slapping me because I said "What's wrong with this class? Why does everyone hate it?" Just out of curiosity. What's sad is that I still continued to have a nice relationship with him, even a few days back I was nice to him. So he won. I did it to myself today. I've been working hard on managing emotions, but I did something that I thought I would never do. I don't know if I'm being whiny, because a lot of people go through worse. It's scaring me, because what if I do something even worse. I have thoughts of worse.
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