Today is my Birthday

@toughBlueberry

Correction: 2 Gifts for certain, and a half for being reluctant but still giving what I asked for. <3

Yes I put effort into this because you put effort IN YOUR LIFE and you MUST be rewarded and seen for such hard work.

We need to praise those in happy moments so that they believe happiness exists and is seen and wanted. I am over the MOON knowing that I touched your heart because now I know that you know that you are able to feel positive and that is the very first lovely step to fight problems in life.

I hope you find more kindness in life. Whether it comes to you or you just become who yovuare MEANT to become and ATTRACT that kind of care through friendship or romance.

"This username doesn't do me justice iam actually soft" no, no, no, don't say that. Who said tough is the opposite of soft? Hmmm? Who? Some old philosopher who lived in prisons?

Being soft has virtues too but this wolrd doesn't understand it yet and this is why you feel ashamed and small because no one speaks of its powers.

You know being soft means having a heart? Having a heart means feeling thing. Feel happy when eating chocolate or your birthday cake, feel excited during vidoe games or Suger Rush, feel hyped when listening to dubstep music, feel relaxed when hearing lo fi, feel grateful when being complimented, feel loved during intimacy, feel angry when others hurt you and Thatmakes you tough and strong and wanting to to battle them.

You dont want these? ALL OF THESE ONLY HAPPEN if you are soft.

Cheer up friend. Don't hate what they told you to hate. Everything is a virtue if you know its use. Now life has tough battles too right? Well then we train. Easy. You want to get tougher physicaly? Workout. Tougher with words and arguments? Read and write about people who hurt you and make counter arguments. Tougher mentally? Challenge yourself. Tougher socially? Learn confidence and body language. Tougher in your career? Spend more time learning and try to dive deep. Its not magic as long as you don't see this as the "right thing to do". Soft is right and tough is right. No oneis better.

I hope you have an awesome life whoever you are and I mean that because EVEN if you have flaws or bad behaviors or mistakes. That doesn't mean that is the real you or the final and full you. Go chase that full version and thrive my friend.

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