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toughClementine5697
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Just found out Wife dated an old man
Men's Issues / by toughClementine5697
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 January 28th
...See more we got married in oct to a woman of my dream and felt like a winnner only to find out that she dated a 54 y.o. man before me. we are 28 and 29 each. And she met with while I was gone out of town, not 1-1 but still dropped in to his event. the 2 separate issues are: 1. I am disgusted by the fact that she dated an old man and wanted a family with him. This flips my image of her completely. 2. I feel betrayed cuz she secretly met him when I was gone I feel betrayed and want to divorce, but we have a baby on the way, so I feel trapped.  What do I do? It's been a month since I found out, and even though we talked through it, the trauma isn't going away. 
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