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turquoiseSailboat5316
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Forever Waiting
Relationship Stress / by turquoiseSailboat5316
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 November 28th, 2018
...See more Hey! Me and my boyfriend have been together 7 years (24,25) and I really want to get married soon (Id like to consider children but I know he always wanted to get married first). Weve preciously talked about marriage and he said hed like to marry me however I brought it up around a year or so ago and he said he wasnt ready and told me to stop talking about it. This upset me and I didnt mention it for a while. I brought it up again recently (over a year later) and again hes still not ready - its upsetting me as Im not sure what he means by not ready. We live together, have a house together, a dog and both have good jobs! It seems the next step is marriage or kids and Id like both! From previous talks he would too but it seems hes going against me time wise. Im upset as Im not sure whether hes not ready cause he doesnt think Im the one, or hes not ready for that level of commitment or hes not ready as in he thinks hes too young but whatever it is I honestly cant bring myself to feel better about it. Any advice?
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