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unassumingVase866
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Daydreaming and self hate
Anxiety Support / by unassumingVase866
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 November 16th, 2023
...See more I have always day dreamed from as long as I can remember, all sorts of things almost like I was re creating parts of my life, as a child it was having the pick of toys, as a teenager it was about the way I looked and what my circle of l friends would be like. As a young adult it was about what car I would drive, house I would live in, now it’s about money, what job I have. Where we would go on holiday, how I would decorate my house if I had a better job. I have a good life and all the things I’ve wanted have happened I am extremely lucky. But I constantly feel like it’s not good enough. I’ve always used it as an escape, I look forward to my commute from work so I can create the “perfect world” it’s never people I change, it’s always materialistic. I never knew it was a thing until I read an article and it stuck with me, and I’ve realised it’s so unhealthy. Has anyone got any tips on how I can step away from this and how to enjoy what I have around me without obsessing over what I think would make my life “perfect”
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