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uncertaingrain
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Wife and I just separated
Relationship Stress / by uncertaingrain
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 April 19th, 2022
...See more My wife and I got married last July after dating for 8+ years. She told me last week that a few weeks after our wedding she started having a physical affair with one of her classmates. I told her I was willing to make it work if she completely cut ties with the guy so we could focus on ourselves going forward and she agreed. Then I saw her texting the guy again and told her that if she wasn’t ready to work on our relationship, she needed to move out of our house. Now I’m alone in an empty house and the reality of us not working out is setting in. Looking at things objectively, it makes sense in my head to sever all ties and try to move on but I can’t bring my heart to feel the same.
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