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understandingBalsam4214
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts12 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes3 Current upvotes3 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2022 Member sinceFebruary 19, 2020
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Sleepy in the morning, Active at night
Healthy Living / by understandingBalsam4214
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 November 14th, 2022
...See more No matter how I try to reset my sleep routine, mornings make me feel sleepy and unmotivated to do my tasks even if I had a good rest. But at night I feel energized and especially at dawn my mind is so active and I can accomplish my task with great focus.
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Tried to open up but bf said I need help
Relationship Stress / by understandingBalsam4214
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 April 25th, 2022
...See more I tried to open up to my boyfriend that sometimes I'm having a hard time understanding him and it bothers me a lot whenever I feel jealous, overthink, and sensitive. I have been keeping it to myself because I don't want to confront him with it because I don't want to be toxic so I always try to calm down and evaluate my feelings alone. After opening up to him he said it is evident that I need psychological help and that I should admit that I am not well and do therapy. I know that and I've been trying to find a psychologist. While I agree with what he said, a part of me just says that this guy is a bit tough.
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Relationship Stress / by understandingBalsam4214
Last post
 April 23rd, 2022
...See more I feel hurt that I'm not getting the same energy I give to my boyfriend and it's making me distant from him. We are in a long-distance relationship, so communication is really important to me. He is busy with work and says he's tired every day. He said sorry to me once for not giving me some time and told me some of the reasons why he gets so tired from his daily life which I understand. What I don't understand is, that sometimes he's active on social media posting stuff, and he would reply to me only before his bedtime. And sometimes he would just tell me to wait because he's tired. We only communicate at least twice a day- before he goes to work/after waking up or before he goes to sleep. Sometimes he would message me more but that's rare and only in his most free time, but even though he does that probably to make up for the times he talked to me less, I don't feel anything about it anymore. Even when he says he loves me and thinks of me at the end of the day, I don't even know what to say, I don't feel the love I used to have because I feel like I'm just someone he talks to in his most convenient time. I did not demand him to message me every minute or every hour because I understand how busy he gets and I'm also busy with work. What makes me confused is the time he spent on social media posting memes but keeping my message unread only to reply when he's about to sleep and reply back before he goes to work tomorrow morning.
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