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The Perspective Game Changed Everything For Me
Positivity & Gratitude / by understandingWriter6397
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 September 7th
...See more I was spiraling yesterday. Sent messages in my class group three times asking for notes. No reply. Two more times. Still nothing. And I broke. I cried. I was anxious. My mind wouldn't stop—why aren't they responding? What did I do? Am I not worth it? I was making their silence about me. Then something shifted. I stopped and asked myself: Why am I thinking about them so much? Why do I care what they're thinking? Why do I care about the world? Especially the people who hurt me? And it hit me: I am me. No matter what. I came into this world, which means I'm worth it. Who are they to judge me? Who are they to see me as less? Because it's all about them. Their choices. Their issues. I can't change that. I can't control them. So I stopped. I just stopped caring about their silence. Then it clicked for me: I'm worth it. I'm valuable. I'm everything—imperfect, but enough. And I don't need their validation to know that. Even if the whole world said I wasn't valuable, they'd be wrong. I'd stand against them and still choose myself. Do you think I'm right?
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