The Perspective Game Changed Everything For Me
I was spiraling yesterday. Sent messages in my class group three times asking for notes. No reply. Two more times. Still nothing.
And I broke. I cried. I was anxious. My mind wouldn't stop—why aren't they responding? What did I do? Am I not worth it? I was making their silence about me.
Then something shifted.
I stopped and asked myself: Why am I thinking about them so much? Why do I care what they're thinking?
Why do I care about the world? Especially the people who hurt me?
And it hit me: I am me. No matter what. I came into this world, which means I'm worth it. Who are they to judge me? Who are they to see me as less?
Because it's all about them. Their choices. Their issues. I can't change that. I can't control them.
So I stopped. I just stopped caring about their silence.
Then it clicked for me: I'm worth it. I'm valuable. I'm everything—imperfect, but enough. And I don't need their validation to know that.
Even if the whole world said I wasn't valuable, they'd be wrong. I'd stand against them and still choose myself.
Do you think I'm right?
@understandingWriter6397
You are right.
You matter.
You don't need anyone else to make you feel better.
You can do this 💛
Don't ever let anyone dictate your worth.
@Amanda84 thank u needed this 💗
@understandingWriter6397
Believe in yourself!
@caringShoulder1357 thank u 🤍
@understandingWriter6397
Honestly, you are so right. How others treat us is a reflection of them, not our worth. Anyone making you feel like 'less' is just showing their own flaws. You deserve the best because you truly matter and have real value. You were born to make a difference, not just to be another number.❤️😊
@Rojan12 thank you so much for this kind message 💗
@understandingWriter6397
Having faith in yourself is important and it's admirable that you found it. However, I want to reassure you not to lose faith in other people because of these bad experiences. There are some people who aren't trustworthy, but for every one, there are two who wants the best for everyone and are more compassionate and accepting then the ones who don't.
You are right to recognize your self-worth and live for yourself. Just know that those rough experiences you have with others, does not reflect the greater world of people you will meet in life.
Take care.
@GoodMellow thank you so much for your kind and amazing message 💗
@understandingWriter6397
LOVE THIS! <3 I need this reminder every day <3
