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Relationship Stress / by versatileOak1403
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 February 18th
...See more So I’ve known and talked to this girl for 2 months (long distance all through text/ occasional voice messages) we get along really well and she made me feel comfortable, I told her that I like her and I wanted to know how she felt and she said she was enjoying getting to know me but then she seemed to pull back, so I started getting anxious and overthinking and decided to message her a lot of messages saying I was overthinking a lot and that I felt like we had 2 different texting paces (she left me on delivered for long periods of times often) and that if she wants to take things slow that’s okay and I’d be happy to do so if that’s what she actually wants, she read all these messages and replied with “okay x” and that was it I’m not even sure what message that responds to or if it’s the whole situation as a whole but it has me worried that I’ve put so much on her it’s pushed her away and I really didn’t want to do that.
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