Confused, want advice
So I’ve known and talked to this girl for 2 months (long distance all through text/ occasional voice messages) we get along really well and she made me feel comfortable, I told her that I like her and I wanted to know how she felt and she said she was enjoying getting to know me but then she seemed to pull back, so I started getting anxious and overthinking and decided to message her a lot of messages saying I was overthinking a lot and that I felt like we had 2 different texting paces (she left me on delivered for long periods of times often) and that if she wants to take things slow that’s okay and I’d be happy to do so if that’s what she actually wants, she read all these messages and replied with “okay x” and that was it I’m not even sure what message that responds to or if it’s the whole situation as a whole but it has me worried that I’ve put so much on her it’s pushed her away and I really didn’t want to do that.
@versatileOak1403
I can see that you like her.
You've done nothing wrong.
But if you've poured your heart out and she only replied with ok x
I would let the next message come from her.
And then you'll know her intentions , because if she wants this, she'll make the effort 🩷
I messaged her asking how her day was after she said “okay x” and shes left it on delivered
@versatileOak1403
Then you have already tried, you deserve the same energy back, not just someone you have to almost beg to answer, you worth more 🩷
I get that but before she made me feel worth a lot I feel like it’s truly a matter of I put too much in to her at once and it’s kind of hit her unexpectedly I guess?
@versatileOak1403
aww I'm sorry, message me pllss
How do I message you?
@versatileOak1403
Just click onto the circle beside their name and you'll be brought to their profile and messaging options 🩷🤗
@versatileOak1403
You can only message them if you see a teen as they are a teen 🤗🩷
@Amanda84
If you are a teen!
Oh I’m 20
Suppose it is good the app has features like that to stop certain people
@versatileOak1403
Yes, agreed, you could browse through a list of adult listeners and see who you think you'd connect with and reach out for a chat 🩷🤗
Okay, I’ll have a looke, thank you
@versatileOak1403
You are most welcome 🩷🤗
Long distance relationship are really complicated. You just live in predicting what they do or what they think. Let her make contact with you first.
