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Long distance relationship breakup
Relationship Stress / by vholi156
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 August 21st, 2025
...See more Its been 6 days after my gf broke up with me. Everything was so unexpected, because only few hours before it happened I would never think about it. We were almost one year together, we were a couple in long distance. The distance was sometimes very difficult, but it seemed like we are strong and we can do it. The night before breakup we had a little argument, both of us did some mistakes, but everything that could have been changed and fixed. The main reason of the breakup was that she slowly lost her feelings. It started one month ago, she said she was trying to fix them, but she couldn’t. It was my first love, i never liked someone like this before, but i also think i was too attached and all my life spinned around her, thats why now it hurts the most. I tried to ask her for one more chance, I would forgive her for anything and also try to change, but it seems like she is decided. Sometimes I blame myself for all of it, because before the argument nothing seemed weird from her. Yesterday i broke no contact trying to convince her if we can see eachother next week because I already bought the flight tickets weeks ago. Now I miss her with all my heart, I cant move on, I cant forgot, I cant stop loving her. I cant stop thinking about all the happy moments we had without knowing that it will all change. I need some advices from you guys, give me tips what to do now. Do anyone think we could still get back to eachother? Write me anything please
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