Long distance relationship breakup
Its been 6 days after my gf broke up with me. Everything was so unexpected, because only few hours before it happened I would never think about it. We were almost one year together, we were a couple in long distance. The distance was sometimes very difficult, but it seemed like we are strong and we can do it. The night before breakup we had a little argument, both of us did some mistakes, but everything that could have been changed and fixed. The main reason of the breakup was that she slowly lost her feelings. It started one month ago, she said she was trying to fix them, but she couldn’t. It was my first love, i never liked someone like this before, but i also think i was too attached and all my life spinned around her, thats why now it hurts the most. I tried to ask her for one more chance, I would forgive her for anything and also try to change, but it seems like she is decided. Sometimes I blame myself for all of it, because before the argument nothing seemed weird from her. Yesterday i broke no contact trying to convince her if we can see eachother next week because I already bought the flight tickets weeks ago. Now I miss her with all my heart, I cant move on, I cant forgot, I cant stop loving her. I cant stop thinking about all the happy moments we had without knowing that it will all change. I need some advices from you guys, give me tips what to do now. Do anyone think we could still get back to eachother? Write me anything please
@vholi156
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I'm sorry you are hurt.
First loves are precious.
I'm sorry she lost feelings, it would have been hard for her to say, but honesty is key.
I think it's important to allow yourself the time to heal.
You need to know your own worth because you cannot put your all into one person, you need to be happy in yourself first.
I don't think you'll get back together, I think it was a natural, amicable growing apart.
But I hope in the future, you'll meet someone else and you'll get the love you deserve, both of you 💜💕
@vholi156
Well, I could tell you that this is a terrible situation and you should worry, try to solve the problem, seek contact with her, but... Long-distance relationships easily fall apart. This is a normal thing. Regular relationships easily fall apart and this is also normal. When you communicate remotely, you are not in contact. Even if you communicate on the phone 24/7, call, you are not in contact. All your thoughts and ideas are based on what? That's right, on your own ideas. You can misunderstand something, your girlfriend can misunderstand something. It happens. If you prove that you were 100% sure that she initially loved you and not the image created in her head - I will take my words back. But the point is that she did not leave you, only her idea of you. She did not fall out of love with you, she just imagined you differently and she did not like it. This is the nature of women and men. Unfortunately, you are another one who fell for this, but don't be sad. When you meet someone in reality, you will understand what I mean. No need to try to return castles in the air, she has already left, be strong. I believe in you, you are not to blame for this story. You will get through this, believe in yourself!