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virginiastuck
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Just trying to figure this life shit out.

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Relationship Stress / by virginiastuck
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 January 23rd, 2021
...See more Hello I’m vee, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 1 year old and he is an amazing father and he’s not a horrible guy, but he is a narcissist and tells me what I want to hear to keep me content or “happy”. In the beginning he convinced me not once not twice but three times that I didn’t need to take certain opportunities that would have helped me advance my career as a veterinarian. I am always making excuses to family and friends as to why things are a certain way like marriage etc. He continues to tell me we will get married and I’ve even suggested a courthouse thing but he says he wants me to have the wedding I deserve... so I stop asking about it and now don’t know if I even want it. Without me realizing it I was financially dependent on him and I have never been a weak minded person but I don’t know who I am anymore and I feel I’m just an ungrateful, unsatisfied emotional crazy person. I feel like my feels now are so superficial and I’m just complaining. I’m a different person from when we started dating and I have no clue what I want in life and I’m so confused if he really cares or is it just a control game to him, I do t know how to get him to be honest. And recently I’ve stopped voicing my thoughts or concerns so I’ve lost my voice in this and really will sound crazy if I just tell him how I feel. And this isn’t everything that’s even going through my head.
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