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wakko779
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PathStep 21 Compassion hearts10 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2021 Member sinceJune 12, 2021
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New to 7 cups
35 & Over Community / by wakko779
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July 13th, 2021
...See more Hey. I'm new to 7 cups. I'm 42 married with 2 adult boys. Looking for friends to chat with. I don't have any, it was hard to keep them. I love music, horror/thriller movies, marvel.....I'm a bit of a nerd. And some tv shows....friends, er, and some new lol. Well if we talk week and chat about more.
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Confusion
Relationship Stress / by wakko779
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June 13th, 2021
...See more My husband and I have been together for 24 years and married for 18. We haven't had a great marriage. We have both broke up with each other for someone else. But for some reason he has ALWAYS accused me of cheating. I lost friends and my life over it. I no longer talk to anyone because of this. And yes I realize this is mental abuse, which I have a history of. Yes eventually it became to much, never knowing if this time he told me to leave would be the last. And I did cheat, was caught and for the first time in my life I saw what I actually meant to him. That not just our children where is world. He said it to me. He showed it to me. For over a year life was feeling amazing. Sometimes he would still joke but no where close to how it used to be, that was a year and a half ago. Now I never know. He has been questioning about divorce and things but still so affectionate. Then just a few weeks ago the man I used to know came back. I do way less now the I ever did. Not on any social media platforms. And I go nowhere except work without him. I don't want to lose him. Sorry so long. I just don't know what to do.
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