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whiterabbit7
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Self centered and manipulative friend
Relationship Stress / by whiterabbit7
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 March 4th, 2018
...See more She makes every conversation about herself. If I make a comment about anything that's unrelated to her, she'll either ignore it or somehow make it about herself. She's very dramatic whenever she suffers any kind of inconvenience or setback. She was having troubles at work and wanted sympathy from her boyfriend, so she texted him things like "I just want to know something in my life isn't falling apart" (referring to their relationship). Her boyfriend was upset at having their relationship questioned out of the blue and this started a fight. She came to me for support. I had no issues with her coming to me for support until she became controlling and manipulative in order to get it. She would call, text, fb message several times a day. One morning I came out of the shower to find I had 5 missed calls, messages, and she was tracking my location using an app. I called her and she was hysterical, saying she was already on her way to me. Nothing new had happened since we last spoke, she just kept saying that she needed "human contact" until her boyfriend got home. I felt I had no choice but to forget what I had planned that day and see her. She got to my house and we drove around for hours talking about her and her boyfriend. At one point she said she felt bad for basically using me, but then followed that up with "but I'd do the same for you". Her boyfriend got home from work and I was dismissed. This went on for 3 months.
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