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willingBanana6146
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Motherhood Support (FC Mother) / by willingBanana6146
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 August 2nd
...See more Hey guys! I’m new here.. and I hate to be a so called “Debbie downer” on my first post. I literally just googled support groups and this one was the first one to pop up. I’m struggling. I’m struggling with life, my marriage, and being a parent. I wake up and just don’t want to do it anymore. My husband and I have 3 kids. I stay at home with them 24/7 and my husband works. We have no help from family. So I don’t ever get a break.. I know that sounds so selfish and I should be grateful. But even when my husband is home I don’t get a break. He literally sees me struggling doing everything with the kids and he doesn’t even offer to help me. I don’t want to seem like im bashing him because I’m not. I guess I just don’t understand. Anytime I see him frustrated I try to do what I can to make his life easier. And when he’s home it feels like he’s not even here. Stuck on his phone or the game.  Our kids are very close in age and extremely active. So I am constantly on edge keeping them out of stuff and dealing with tantrums.. I guess I just need to vent but also find support. I have no one.. I don’t have time for friends because it’s too much to take all three kids out and work around everyone else’s schedule.. 
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