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willingOcean5465
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Very worried about our age difference and what that means for children?
Relationship Stress / by willingOcean5465
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 October 6th, 2025
...See more Well I'm 29 male. I've been dating a 36 female for the last 3 months. Exclusive for 4 weeks of that. I've come to really care for her. She's a lovely person. She honestly treats me so well. She's sexy, kind, caring. I melt a little bit when I've come back from the pub and she's gone and bought me some food and a hydration drink and meets me at the station to check i'm ok. I'm honestly falling for with her. But. I feel extreme anxiety over her age. I want kids. She has said she'll have kids with the right person. And I know it's only been 3 months but how much time do we actually have for that? As she's 36. I don't own my own home yet. I have a decent paying job but I'm not that senior. She makes great money so it's easier that way but... that feels a bit funny to me. she turns 37 in december. She hasn't frozen her eggs. So we have what... 2 years max to really get this going? at which point im... 31. I thought I might live abroad next year. Or change job. I don't even know where I want to live long term. She's been through other long term relationships. She was living with an ex for 4 years back in the US and has a dog with him. I've not had anything that's gone longer than a year and a half. never lived on my own. Never lived with a partner. I've spoken to her about this and she said 3 months is way too soon to be properly discussing this. She said she doesn't even know what kind of house I'd want yet. or if we would fit long term as a couple. But everything is pointing to we would right now. I just feel very very anxious about the future. Her becoming more intwined in my life.
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