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...See more Hello everyone, unfortunately its to hard for me to put out the whole story but I’ll try to make it brief.. Me and my husband dated for two years and we had our ups and downs but we fell hard for each other. Both our families we’re against our relationship for lots of reasons thats we couldn’t control. we got secretly married and applied for a visa to a different country to start a new life. the problem i have is that my husband is a narcissist and most of the times he’s trying to be the victim even when i dont so anything to start an argument. he changed quickly after we got married, he became strict for example: dont put lipstick dont wear this dont talk to her and so on i cant say that he doesn’t love me, he does and he showed me that by his actions lots of times but his short temper is really ruining me 99% of the times when he starts an argument i just apologize and agree with him even if I didn’t do anything just to end the argument but every time i feel worse i feel like im loosing my personality i know that I’ve should’ve known better than staying with him and even marrying him but i love him so much and he has stood by my side so many times when even my parents didnt and he helped me in every way possible i feel horrible because even though we’ve been married for a month we’ve already mentioned divorce like 3 times i dont know what to do i just need some advice on how to handle this how could i make him stop acting like that? i do whatever he says and agree with everything but its never enough

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