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wittyFig8811
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so i did something horribly wrong
Relationship Stress / by wittyFig8811
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 May 8th, 2025
...See more so theres a guy at my school who randomly 5 months ago started talking to me and confessed that hes had feelings for me for years and has been obsessively stalking me to the point of knowing my usual habits like where i usually go and when, where i live, random info about me etc. so i gently rejected him in the beginning, he told me he was hoping to at least stay friends and i accepted it. after a while i was getting more creeped out by his behaviour, like the stuff he asked me about or knew about me and i immediately dramatically cut him off and said i didnt want to talk to any guys at the moment. he panicked, tried to reach out both in person and on the phone before he accepted it and told me to at least not remove him on social media and that he wouldn't approach me but wait until im comfortable to get back to him. i agreed and didnt remove him, and after a week or a little more i texted him again and he immediately was back talking to me, what i did horribly wrong was leading him on after that. hear me out, i was confused, liked his attention and was flattered by the effort hes been putting on me AND thought i was developing feelings. but i wasnt. i lead him on and it was selfish of me now we're somewhat together, not officially dating or anything but he thinks our feelings are mutual, he promised me a future. and one other problem is that at some point he asked me if i just liked the attention and if at some point I'll just tell him that i never liked him and leave him alone or not, at the time i completely denied that and told him he was overthinking. plus i dont know how to leave because hes unpredictable and im really scared to like disappoint him and have him do something horrible to me, i have no family or adults to reach out to. I'm 17 so not a kid but still, no one's really gonna help if that makes sense, I'll actually get in more trouble
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