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wonderingifimworthit
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Relationship Stress / by wonderingifimworthit
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 April 30th, 2024
...See more Disbelief  The person I’ve been seeing for 2 1/2 years… it’s been a long emotional strain… I care about this guy… I’m emotional where he is avoidant. I tell him in detail why I’m feeling what I am for him to tell me I do not express anything and he has no idea why I feel what I do.. makes no sense. Every talk ends in a snowball argument…. Yelling at one another… makes no sense to me. I tell him where I feel I’m coming up short… for him to cal himself a POS… but I’m not saying that… obviously he doesn’t want to take accountability…. This last time… he tells me I’m mental and have bipolar…. I know I don’t … makes me so sad…. He is always running. While I know I need to let him go… I’ve done so much healing… he can never answer the questions I ask that pertain to his behavior. Makes me upset especially when he says he ‘cares about me’ I know better.  I lost my dog unexpectedly and fell into depression an expressed to him how I felt for him to yell at me and basically tell I’m wrong for feeling what I am…. How do I let This person go. sounds so stupid. Every time I bring something up regarding his behavior he shuts me doWn and tells me how bad I am but that’s not my intent. I then allow him to go first. Never works. We don’t mesh.
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