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yellowJackfruit7490
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Is he Grieving?(part 1)
Relationship Stress / by yellowJackfruit7490
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September 11th, 2016
...See more Hi there, I hope I'm able to get advice. My ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago, we spoke online for a while when he was with his ex girlfriend and I sort of helped him with that and we spoke on and off for a few weeks until we decided to meet in 2013. When we met we became quite close and started going together, during the relationship we had a lot of little arguements but we would make up, it was mostly him annoying me and me getting too angry. We would suggest breaking up but It wouldn't come to anything. Last month he lost his pet of 6 years, it was roughly around this time where he said he didn't love me anymore, he wouldn't want to stay at my house, we both have mental illnesses and a lot started to change in his life, it became that he wanted to take things slow and see how it goes, then I got really angry and upset because it was changing a lot in my life too, going from 3years of together almost every day to only seeing each other a day or 2, I apologised for letting this get to me and I didn't mean the things I said but he started to panic so he took a few hours to think. After they few hours he said he wanted to break up, said we haven't gotten on for a long time, we don't have anything in common and things weren't working for him, I don't understand how it lasted 3 years if we didn't get on or didn't have anything in common, at this point he still liked me but wanted a week of no contact, I gave him the week, we started talking and he said he didn't miss me....
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