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Miscarriage, infidelity and heartache
Relationship Stress / by yellowLand768
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 October 3rd, 2019
...See more I was in a 4 year same-sex relationship. Engaged. Decided to start a family and I fell pregnant but we lost the baby at 16 weeks. A month later my partner came home and unexpectedly ended our relationship. I was totally blindsided. Turns out she was having an affair with a colleague she had been getting support from since our loss. The affair continued but stopped when the other womans partner found out. A few months later my partner wanted to try rebuild. I agreed to try provided she give it time and effort and see a counsellor if we werent able to get things moving. After a month she told me she was in love with me and had been very lost and confused recently. She assured me every day that things were headed in the right direction and I was learning to trust her again. Then 6 weeks into rebuilding, after I thought that we had a lovely date night, she ended it again. She says she loves and cares for me but she isnt in love with me. She can no longer see a future with me and sees me as a friend only. Im so broken. Ive lost so much. Now we have to sell our house and pack up our whole lives. I didnt even know there were issues. In the weeks after we lost the baby she told me she loved me more than ever. Im so confused and cant seem to pull myself out of my misery. Its been 6 weeks since she left and shes told like that theres no chance of us ever getting back together. Help!
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