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...See more Hey! So I just realized I have no friends. I've always knew my "group of friends" weren't really friends they were just people I hang out with but what I recently realized is that I actually don't feel good when I'm with them (like I feel left out, I feel like I'm not enough, like I'm not loved and I feel obligated to do what they do so that I don't miss anything and I'm a part of the group) and that I'm not my best self when I'm with them so I decided to not hang out with them anymore and I was actually okay with that I mean it hurt not having friends but it was fine because I had my best friend but I also realized that I don't like being with her because our energies are so different and I feel better when I'm not with her and also we don't have things in common anymore so yeah I basically have no friends and I'm having a hard time accepting it. I keep telling myself that maybe I'm the problem, maybe I'm not enough or idk but deep down I don't think that because I love myself and I think I'm great but this things and the fact that I've always struggled making friends, that I've never had a boyfriend and that no one shows interest in me and nobody seems to care about me make me question that. And I don't know how to make friends and how to meet people to help me let go this old friendships and move on, any advice?

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