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...See more Soooo.. I (25) was in a relationship with an older man (53) ( I know huge age gap and that was something that lowkey bothered me but I fell hard for him) long story short I found out he was still very much with his wife. Yes unfortunately I fell for that lie "we are separated" .. Things ended between us of it. He still denies that he's with her to this day. At that point I just decided to walk away and leave it all alone.I was to hurt and just wanted peace in my life. He wanted to stay friends but I refused. I couldn't do that to myself Anyways that was 2 months ago. He randomly called me 3 times last weekend but I did not answer ( I have nothing to say to him he hurt me so much) all i want is to get over him. But I recently found out he's dating some girl who I always thought he was involved with when I was with him. She's an artist ( also 25 years old) and he's a music producer) he always claimed they were just working together that they were not involved. But my gut feeling told me otherwise. So to find out they're a thing really hurt me especially because she's also young and that just goes to show me what type of man he really is. At this point I'm feeling so many emotions and I feel like I should tell his wife something. I feel angry more than Anything. Why should I stay silent? Does me staying silent man I'm protecting him? Is it wrong of me to message her (from a fake account) and tell her what her husband has been up to? like tell her he's having an affair with the artist he is producing. Idk if that would bring me some karma but in reality I'm just being honest. I wouldn't be doing it to purposely cause her harm i just want her to know the truth. I want to do it off a fake account because I don't want it coming back to me or be involved in the drama. I'm just so hurt and can't believe I was fooled by this womanizer. When things ended between us I was so hurt and all I wanted to do was "expose" him but I literally prayed to God to give me strength to not go down that level. And I got through it. But now hose feelings came back again. And I kinda see it differently now, if anything I'm looking out for his wife but I'm sure she knows what type of man she's married to already I just don't know what the right thing to do is What do you guys think I should do?? (Please be nice I'm sensitive)

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