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Help, I don’t know what to do
Relationship Stress / by zographia97
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 April 17th, 2025
...See more Hi, I need advice. Whenever me and my partner have an argument, he threatens me that I need to leave in the morning. Since I’m staying with him and his parents, this is not my home. For instance, he told me he had been staying up late texting another girl who is his friend as of a few months, she is married. I had a problem as personally I don’t think we should be staying up late for the opposite gender. I would be more comfortable if it was a guy. When I brought this up he said I was overreacting, that I have no trust. I tried to help him understand why I thought it was wrong, he said I would have to leave in the morning. Me made up but then again we had another conflict and he is threatening to cancel a holiday booking we have just made. I feel like I’m not allowed to express myself I just told him why I cried at Christmas when his mum accidentally said ‘will you be going back to your dads’ ( my dad left when I was 4) and he said I ruined Christmas because of how I cried and left the table because of that. He said I need to learn to control my emotions. Will I cry when we have kids ect. I’m just quite unhappy. I went to ChatGPT for advice and I showed him and he told me that chat gpt is bias and he just laughed.
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