Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.I like to help people as I know how it feels to be in that position. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, send me message and I'll answer it later. Glad you are here! :)
💙About Me💙Hey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or Lav I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. I’m super interested in Psychology and Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do their best to support you. If you want to schedule a chat with me personally, you will have to do so using my Booking Button, which can be found at the bottom of my page. Please only take 1 slot.
Support Session Leader
Verified Listener + Verified Listener Team
Intern Mentor + Intern Graduate with Honours
Hello! My name is Tazzie. You can also call me Taz. I am a Sub-Community & CML Ambassador.I'm also involved in the following leadership roles:❑ Community Mentor Leader❑ Adult & Teen Quality Mentor❑ Adult & Teen Chatroom Mentor❑ Forum Mentor ❑Teen Transition Mentor
Please read the whole profile before contacting me! (except quotes section you dont have to read that unless you're interested) My availability is: Monday-Thursday, 1 pm- 1 am EST, I do not schedule chats unless they are the day of, as i have a very bad memory and am likely to forget about themI usually keep my status set to busy or offline mode, but dont be afraid to send me a message anyway. Please include what you would like to chat about when you leave me a message, it would be really helpful to me so I know what you're going through.I normally do not do sexual chats, however depending on the situation I may still chat with you about the topic, but I do request that explicit details not be shared if I do agree to chat with you about it.~Quote the Raven, Nevermore~
About MeMy name is Jayson and I'm a transgender guy! I'm always here if you need to talk. I can especially help if you have ADHD, PTSD, trauma, anxiety, and LGBT+ issues.I DONT take chats on suicide, self-harm, drugs or alcohol or anything involving any of those, as those types of things or even mentioining those things can be triggering to me. Please also remember that if you are in CRISIS we at 7 cups cannot support you, as we're not trained to help in crisis situations so i highly encourage you to log out and contact suicide.org for helpListener Twins!!@ItsDev@KarenMarie@Pamharley003@TenderTruth@SpaceStation2Things I do here!Peer Support- I offer support to listeners after they have been through a difficult or stressful chat
Quality MentorChatroom MentorGlobal ModSafety PatrolVerifier TeamChat Support - i offer support to listeners during a difficult/hard chat
"Sometimes there is no darker place than our thoughts, the moonless midnight of our mind" -Dean Koontz"We're all needed, even those who sometimes think we're worthless, plain and dull. If we love and allow ourselves to be loved...Well a person who loves is the most precious thing in the world, worth all the fortunes that ever were." -Dean Koontz"Being polite is not only the right way to respond to people, but also the easiest. Life is so filled with unavoidable conflict that I see no reason to promote more confrontations." -Dean Koontz"There's no such thing as being cowardly in a fight" -Edward Elric"Sometimes its good to be scared, it means you have something to lose" -Richard Webber"Just put one foot in front of the other, just get through the day." - Meredith Grey "I'm a human being, I make mistakes. I'm flawed, we all are." - Derek Shepherd"The future is the home of our deepest fears and our wildest hopes." -Owen Hunt
PLEASE READ MY BIO - I AM NOT TAKING MEMBER CHATS AT THIS TIMEHi! My name is Amber! Welcome to 7 Cups; I'm glad you've decided to reach out! I'm a verified, trained active listener for teens AND adults. :)I'm a student studying Biomedical Engineering and Mechanical Engineering - I want to either become a forensic pathologist or study regenerative tissue on the International Space Station with NASA. I also work full time at Waffle House (or WaHo), am the senior director of an art guild, model cosplay and have many hobbies and interests like anime, listening to music, taking hikes and writing, etc. etc. I am a proud Pagan, demisexual and survivor! Tell me about yourself, I'd love to chat!I specialize in LGBTQ+, relationship stress, breakups and the usual feeling good about yourself (self esteem, bullying, etc.) chats, but feel free to request from any of my listed topics (also including Borderline/BPD and PSTD/trauma). I've had experience and am comfortable with talking about any of the topics I've mentioned or are featured on my profile. If you don't think I'm a good fit for you, please visit https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ and select someone you'd like to chat with!I don't take chats not listed in my topics, so please don't approach me with anything other than those. :)
Life isn't always easy, and I've had my fair share of experiences. Lets better ourselves together!LISTENER TWINS!!! These lovely people are here for you too and are the kindest individuals I've met:
My Twin Yeeter: @YoursTrulyBenIf I don't reply, please don't spam me. I'll get back to you as soon as I have time!
XOXO, AmberP.S. please, please, PLEASE do not contact me for any kind of sexual chat or favors, that is inappropriate and I don't appreciate it. I also do NOT want to hear about your fetishes. ABSOLUTELY NO: illegal sex acts, sexualization of children, or incest. Thank you!ATTENTION!
I will RARELY if EVER accept personal requests due to my hectic schedule! If you'd like to speak with me, please leave me a message. I will be happy to reply to you.Please don't be rude to me, I'm here to help you and I don't deserve hostility. <3My Involvement:
(Teen) Quality Mentor
Family and Caregivers' Community Support TeamI'm accepting long-term members! <3For Members:
I have an extremely busy schedule, so I'm not accepting chats right now, but if you leave me a message then I'll be happy to get back to you on when, in the future, that I might be available once my life winds down. :)
Please feel free to reach out to me for peer support, any questions you might have, or just to get to know me!
| Teen Quality Mentor | Teen Transition Mentor |Active Listening 1 (Grading & Feedback)You can call me Amp!Greetings, I'm so glad that you've reached out for help. I know that life can seem like a complicated journey sometimes. During this time, it is not unusual to feel overwhelmed, confused or frustrated. My goal is to provide comfort and care for you as well as a safe and non-judgemental space to talk about everything and anything. Sometimes we just want someone to listen, and even that alone can be therapeutic. I am willing to listen to you and help you understand your thoughts and feelings better. You don't have to feel you are alone on the journey.
Not taking new chats at the moment due to time constraints!*Life is a journey that everyone goes through. Think of it as a story told by you. There are many ups in life as well as many downs but it is up to the author of each story to determine the next chapter.* ~Anya Members/GuestMental health is important 365 days/year. Many people suffer from mental health issues but they are too afraid to speak about it because of the stigma all around us. But what’s harder than dealing with mental health issues, is pretending that you aren’t struggling. You shouldn’t have to pretend like you are always okay, out of fear that others will judge you or talk about you or think any less of you. No matter what you are dealing with, you are still you. The only thing that matters is that you know your strength and your courage, and let me tell you, everything that you are is more than enough, no matter who you are or what you are going through. So don’t be ashamed of any part of it. Your battles are what shape you into that strong and amazing person. And no matter what anyone tells you, it’s okay not to feel that you are strong and amazing every day. It’s okay not to believe it for a while. It’s okay to struggle. I assure you, you are not alone. Every single one of us goes through that at some point or another. I will always be here to listen to your story, and I will not ever judge you, or make you feel ashamed of what you are going through, or see you as anything less than the wonderful person you are. Because I know that at the end of the day, the one who has the courage to speak about it, is the one who is the strongest of them all. ListenersI want you all to remember that you guys are truly amazing. Spending time on here to help others during your free time shows dedication, compassion, and kindness on your part. Thank you so much for doing this. I know that all of our fellow members truly appreciate it! Got a question for me? Feel free to send me a message at any time and I will get back to you as soon as I can!My InvolvementChatroom Teen Star LeaderQuality Teen StarTeen Listener Teams Leader Listener Learning Support Team Leader (Teens)Self Harm Recovery Support Team Leader (Teens)Peer Supporter Group Moderator Chatroom DoorkeeperIt's a wonderful honor to have the opportunity to train others, to guide them while they learn and to be a friend throughout their journies! I am so thankful for all of my amazing mentees who are always willing to learn and who make everything I do on here worth it! It's a blessing to be able to witness your growth and watch you become the amazing listeners you are!Thank you to @summertimesamness and @Imogene , two of my mentees who made me these beautiful personalized cards! I truly appreciate the time you took to make these! It really touches my heart that you guys did this! @summertimesamness@Imogene
Hello! I'm Blaze
I am currently not taking any new 1-on-1 support chats. You can find another listener here:Browse Listeners
I’m strongly focused on Quality Projects on 7 Cups. I’m a Quality Mentor. If you're a Listener and would like to get in touch with a Quality Mentor, you can message me.Quotes
Do not listen with the intent to reply, but with the intent to understand. ~Stephen Covey
Hi there! Welcome to 7 Cups of Tea :)
I’m a trained active teen and adult listener and I like to support people struggling with about anything. I came here to find help myself and I did and it made me feel a lot better and I want to do the same for others by listening to them. I love to read and listen to music. You can vent out, think out loud, talk about anything you like and I will be here to listen to you without judging you at all as I know how hard it is to open up. I want you to feel safe with me while you talk and know that I am here for you.
* A Teen Ambassador
* An Adult - Teen Listener
* Teen Mentor Leader
* A Forum Mentor
* A Quality Mentor
* A Teen Mentor
* Peer support
Just know that I’m here for you :)
★ Hello there. I'm Star! ★ If you're new here, don't be afraid. You can message me. I will always try my best to assist you. I'm a verified listener here, and I've been on 7Cups for over three years. I hope that I can help alleviate your pain, and you'll feel at least a bit better after our chat. We can also have a casual conversation if you want. Sometimes when we feel lonely, a simple chat can do a world of wonders. :)~I accept long-term members. Click here.~
My life hasn't been fantastic. I've experienced myself or been a first-hand witness to many different things in this world — many topics I can relate to and understand. You'll never be judged when talking to me. We all come from different walks of life and cultures. Everyone is dealt a hand when they begin this life. You can't help the cards you get. Some people get better hands, and some get worse hands. But you can only do the best with what you do have. I feel like that is the meaning of real success. <3
Usually, I have my status on offline/busy even if I may be online. Feel free to message me, and I'll get back to you when I can. Hopefully between 1-2 hours if I'm not sleeping or something like that. Hehe. <3★ My Roles ★ ★ Quality Mentor- Here to help you with your listening journey. If I'm currently accepting mentees, you can come to talk to me about trying to improve. I'd love to help you out. <3 We can do mock chats and practices to help you out. I'll always be your cheerleader! Hehe!★ Peer Support- Everyone gets a rough chat every once in a while. Any listener may feel free to contact me to talk and reflect after having one. I shall try my best to assist you and motivate you in your goals. I'm also a sort of Wikipedia for information. First, always try to get information from a mentor, but I can always try to answer whatever questions you may have.
★ Group Moderator- I am a community centered mod for the Relationship Support, Student Support, and Teen Zone Support Communities. I always try to keep these rooms a safe and positive environment for everyone. I also try to make them welcoming for anyone who wants to participate. I would never abuse my moderator powers, but I understand if you dislike mods for that reason. <3★ Support Session Leader- Currently I hold discussions for the Relationship and Student Communities:Student Session- Every Friday from 5 pm to 6 pm EST in the Student Support Room (On Break)Relationship Session- Every Saturday from 9 am to 10 am EST & Every Wednesday from 2 pm ET to 3 pm ET in the Relationship Support Room★ Verified Listener Team Member- I am a verified listener in the community. I can conduct mock chats to test you to become a verified listener too! Feel free to message me if you're interested, and I'll help you out. :)
★ Forum Supporter- I'm currently a supporter for the forums in the Relationship Support Community. Weekly, I post check-in threads to see how everyone is doing for Tuesdays. I also try to incite discussions and thoughts while even replying to posts that don't have replies yet. I'll try my best to support you in the community. :)
Whenever you don't feel like there's nothing left to learn to remember "The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue growing as we continue to live."
Currently A lot of self care is required on my part, so I will not be scheduling any chats.My Listener Twins
One of my twins is CelestiaStar. She may currently be on vacation, but she will be back. <3 You Celestia.
My second twin is KRN. She's alive and kicking!About Me
Hi! I'm Amanda (CalmSunset), a verified adult/teen listener, a Support Group Moderator, and a former Adult/Teen Quality Mentor here at 7 Cups. I love to just sit in peace at the sunset and wind down from the day. I am a transgender lesbian woman and I'd love to chat with you and help with anything I can! I suffer from borderline personality disorder, depression, anxiety, and sleep issues, all of which I've managed to varying degrees. I'd love for you to stop by and chat with me.My Chats
What to expect when chatting with me:
✔ The length of time I can chat for depends on my self care needs. It usually lasts usually half an hour, sometimes more if specific support is needed.
✔ If I'm marked offline, it's unlikely i'll be taking new member chats if your looking for immediate support
✔ If you do message me offline, I'll respond to your question, but also ask that we find a time to chat.Topics
My star topic areas: LGBTQ+, Relationships, Calming Techniques
Topics I have experience with and can help with: Anxiety, Relationships, Depression, Eating disorders, LGBTQ+, Managing Emotions, Borderline Personality Disorder, Panic Attacks, Sleeping Well, Traumatic Experiences - Non-assaults, Work Stress, Financial Stress, Life at school
Topics I have some experience/I'm able to touch on: Parenting, Self-Harm
Topics I find hard OR have little to no experience with: Alcohol/Drugs, Bullying, Disability Support, Domestic Violence, Startup support