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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿

(Currently on a break from taking new chat requests, thanks for understanding ^-^ . My current member buddies, feel free to message whenever you want 😄)

I'll be there for you

             When the rain starts to pour ; )

" There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? "

Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧

Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊

I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile.

We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow.

I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones.

I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise.

Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol)

✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story.

✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy.

✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s.

✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them.

✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually.

✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can.

About me:

🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.

🕊️I love learning new languages.

🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking.

🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre. 

🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows.

🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷.

🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚. 

🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better. 


May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇


“Message in a bottle is all I can do

Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕













































































































































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Anxiety Check-in (●'◡'●)
Anxiety Support / by daydreammemories
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hello amazing people 😇 Let's have a check-in. How have you all been doing? 💚You can answer any of the following questions, or simply say hi. Any question on anxiety is welcome as well. Let's share our thoughts and support each other!  🌟1. How has your day or week been so far?  🌟2. How much is anxiety affecting your life these days?  🌟3. How are you currently taking your anxiety under control? and what benefits there is to take our anxiety under control? Let's start with these simple questions, looking forward to hearing from you!  ice breaker: What's your favorite movie title? 🎥
Stepping out of our comfort zones
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by daydreammemories
Last post
 Thursday
...See more Hello beautiful people 😇 -In my last post, here : https://www.7cups.com/forum/idg/General_2633/Comfortzonesprosandcons_325788/ , we talked about comfort zones in general. Now we want to discuss the ways one can step out of their comfort zones with.  1. Find your baseline: In other words, acknowledging how much you can and can't handle matters in order to function the best.  2. Master your emotions: This doesn't mean to repress them, but to understand and respect our feelings. Asking ourselves " What is this emotion really telling me? " Anxiety is normal when we leave our comfort zones. Acknowledge it, and move past it. 3. Develop a growth mindset: Growing the belief that humans can improve their skills and work towards bigger goals.  4. Start small: You don't need to go big immediately. Start by little things and change your direction to work, go to a new restaurant, or wear a different style. Begin to create new habits that turn your ability to leave your comfort zone into something that feels natural and becomes a part of your daily routine. 5. Find like-minded people: Surrounding ourselves with the right people will fasten the process leading to stepping out of our comfort zones. You can use the help of a mentor or the guidance of the ones who succeeded as well. 6. Accept the failure and find the lesson: Learning from our mistakes can create a great sense of acknowledgement of how far we've come and how we can remove obstacles.  Now, what activity do you think would be a good suit for you to start stepping out of your comfort zone? and how do you think you can accomplish that step?  ps: Feel free to share any thought, or just say hi 😊
A piece of music!
Music & Dance / by daydreammemories
Last post
 March 23rd
...See more Hello beautiful people 😇 Have you ever had that piece of music that taught you some life lessons?  I've been meaning to share one of my songs, that helps me a lot. I think people with family related problems might relate to this song pretty well. ❤ The song " family tree, by Matthew West" Here's a link to the lyric video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlqH5-T9WtI  And to all those who feel the same: You healed your wounds instead of spreading the pain, that's strength. 💚 ps: Join me in sharing that one song of yours as well, or just say Hi 😁
Daydream here!
Anxiety Support / by daydreammemories
Last post
 March 27th
...See more Hello beautiful people 😇 I hope everyone is having a calm day✨ I wanted to introduce myself first- so umm, Hi! I'm daydream, and I'll be here as a forum supporter- hopefully 😅🤞. And I love to get to know you all, Let's help improve together!  I have some ideas about my content here, but to anyone with an idea, I'd be happy to hear from them! : ) ps: or you can just say Hi😁
Comfort zones, pros and cons
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by daydreammemories
Last post
 April 4th
...See more Hello to all! , and I hope you're doing well 😇 -While reading and discovering about IDG, I found out about the importance of stepping out of our comfort zones, as it was mentioned a couple of times. Two important ones were: 1. In the first dimension-being, we should step out of our comfort zone and explore by reading and researching, to create 'complexity awareness' and 2. stepping out of our comfort zone in the last dimension-driving change, creating 'courage'. And I like to talk about it more. 🧐 -Comfort zone is a familiar psychological state, in which we feel at ease, and in control of the environment. Which according to what Tony Robbins, the famous writer says, fulfills our need for "certainty".  - There are some pros and cons to our comfort zones.  Pros: Staying in our comfort zones can provide us with a sense of familiarity, therefore, it leads to us being confident. It can also minimalize risks and save our energy, since if an activity is in our comfort zone, chances are that we can complete it easily or without too much thought or planning.  Cons: If we don't do activities that somewhat scare or challenge us, we might miss out on growth opportunities and don't learn new skills. The so-called "no risk, no reward situation"  - In conclusion, our comfort zones can both be beneficial and harmful to us. In such circumstances, creating a healthy balance between stepping out of comfort zones and staying in our comfort zones might come across one's mind.  😁I'd like to raise two questions for discussion.  🌟First, Do you think comfort zones are essentially good or bad? And why?  🌟And second, how do you determine the line between stepping out and staying in your comfort zone? in other words, how can one find out what best suits them in different life situations?  ps: I'd be happy to hear about your experiences on that matter as well, since I like to come up with a conclusion and clear my mind a bit, so feel free to share anything! : )
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