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Current Leadership Roles: Mentor Leader for VL Team, Chatroom Mentor, Global Mod, Anonymous Evaluations Team, Doorkeeper. **Currently not accepting new member chats.** **Please read my bio before messaging me.** Heya. I'm Rain. It's very nice meeting you! I'm a college student from Turkey. I am diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Despite my young age, I have been and continue to go through a lot journeying life, so I promise to offer a compassionate and judgment-free environment in our chats. I commend your courage and strength: reaching out for support is never easy!  **As listed on my profile, I only offer support chats in English. Although I am fluent in more languages, I have taken my training in English, thus I feel comfortable offering support only in that language.** **Please do not message me asking if I am willing to make an exception.** Topics I am most comfortable offering support with: - Anxiety & Anxiety Attacks - Depression - Panic Attacks - Break-Ups - Self-Harm - Domestic Abuse - Relationship Stress Topics I prefer not to discuss: - Sexual abuse, - Schizophrenia, - Grief, - Politics or religion.  **Please note; I prefer not to discuss these as I don't feel sufficiently trained in said topics.** Graduate of Quality Listening, Leadership Development, Internship, and Inner Development Goals with honors. 

Hello! I've decided to become a listener after many years of being a member. I am paying it forward! Women's Issues LGBTQ+ Family Issues Anxiety Casual Chats Ethical Non-Monogamy BDSM/Kink I will listen to most topics. However, I ask you to Kindly not be vulgar or profane. Please no swear words and be respectful. Please don't message me with only a greeting and nothing else - I'm less likely to respond. Let's have meaningful and engaging dialogue. I may lose interest with vague or one-word responses if they are consistent. I will not always offer personal insights or experiences - if I want to, I will. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation. :) Meow 🐈 ❄️🐇 👸♠️

🍎Current update - My usual times are  7:30PM -9;30PM chats bst time for 30 min chats. Reach out to me to request one of these times and I'll see where I can fit you in. I’m experiencing tech issues at the moment and will get back to you ASAP! 29/09/2026 til 30/09/2026 - no appointments on these dates due to work commitments I'm also not free on weekends.  I do not take chats on: Polygamy, Sexual Issues, BDSM, sexual health These are past areas where Ive had experience:  - Community Mentor: Any of mentees welcome to reconnect! I’d love to know how you’re doing and others too! - Content Writer and Editor - Moderator, chatroom supporter for listeners  - LCI host - Forum Supporter - Assistance in running Positivity Corner Sessions Presently I am one of the hosts for Sharing Circle FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. Also I will ask questions that will encourage you to reflect about yourself - for some this may involve looking at parts of themselves that aren’t processed. So if you feel that you aren’t ready to explore things that have hurt you then you may choose to not talk to me. Be clear about what you need is my policy (If you feel you might go over 30 mins it’s best to come in with bullet points about what you want to talk about - e.g if the topic is trauma).  If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *30 min duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️

- please be respectful. I don't do causal chats and please don't text me for relationship/sexual issues.  have a good day 🥂

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You are bigger than your problems, and you are stronger than your pain. you are Worthy, you are Beautiful, you are Capable, you are Loved.  You are amazingly amazing. Remember that.  Live in the moment.. ❤️ ​​

Just a human like you and the world isn't that bad.

Existence is pain.  How often do you wish there was a secret "How to solve all your problems in 1 min" guide hidden somewhere... ...that would instantly whoosh away the icky bits of living? Ah! If only it were that simple. And to make things worse... We're living in the MOST DANGEROUS ERA of all... The modern, "internet obsessed, 24/7 dopamine milking gadgets with degrading social connections" world.  In times like these, it's too easy to hit pause on our mental health, becoming a victim to: Anxiety 👹 Loneliness 🥺 Depression 🧟 ...and plenty of other mental health foes. Maybe you wanna scream...cry...rant your guts out...but find it difficult to. Or just need someone to listen deeply... because it's hard to find someone who can just shut up and let you speak. Or maybe you're someone who can only express themselves with words... because being vulnerable with someone face to face is too uncomfortable (I certainly felt that) Well, don't worry... I've got your back (more like ears though). I've got all the tools in my backpack that makes me the perfect listener for you... Tools like:  Empathy. Patience. A Non judgemental attitude. Here's what I can do for you: ✔️ ALWAYS respond within seconds (which means you'll never be "stuck waiting for my response") ✔️ ALWAYS be crystal clear about my time of availability (which means you'll have a listener who never "leaves the conversation in between") ✔️ ALWAYS devoted to listen to you with 100% attention (which means you can stop worrying "if I'm really listening or not") That's not all, though. You also occasionally get to hear my personal collection of (poor) dad jokes and raw (unnecessary) takes on the meaning of life... Well, enough talk.  Time to end this (super long) introduction with my favourite quote from Rick and Morty... "Nobody exists on purpose. Nobody belongs anywhere.  Everyone's gonna d.ie.  Come chat with me?"

- 🌼 If you reach out to me while I am offline, please keep in mind that it will likely take 1-2 weeks for me to respond. Briefly introduce yourself and what you would like to talk about and let me know what days and times would generally work for you, so we can set up a time to chat as soon as possible 🌼 - ------------------------- Hey! Great that you found me here on 7cups. My screenname here is MoonlightPrimrose, but you can call me Louie or Lou if you want. My pronouns are they/them and he/him. I've been listening on and offline for more than 7 years now, I like to read, I like to be creative in many different ways with photography, drawing, painting, writing and playing DnD and I have a gentle spiritual self-care practice of Tarot, Yoga Asana, meditation and other grounding and connecting techniques. I am also quite passionate about social justice and try to learn and unlearn every day. I do my best to consider my own positioning as a white, upper-middle class neurodivergent disabled queer trans person in my listening work. I am very queer. I use a lot of different words and labels to describe myself, depending on people and situations in my life. Some of them are: trans*, non-binary, gay, transmasculine, greyromantic, or simply queer. Feeling alone, overwhelmed or sad is something I know, but I also know how much it helps to just talk to someone... It's not always a solution to every single problem, but it's often a relief to know that there are people out there who care for you and who know what you are going through. We are meant to support each other. We are not meant to fight through this life on our own. I've experienced struggles with bullying, school and family stress, anxiety, depression, coming out and other issues of queer (gender) identity myself and this might help you feel heard if we share these experiences. If you feel like we might be a good match: Just send me a message. As mentioned above it might take 1-2 weeks for me to respond, but we'll schedule a time to chat if I have capacity and see where it goes from there. The chats I schedule are up to 50 minutes long and my timezone is CET. If I have the capacity and feel like we match well I will offer follow-up chats towards the end of our first one. As you might have noticed: I'm from Germany and German is my native language. So if there are fellow Germans out there who want to talk, schreibt mir einfach, dann können wir natürlich auch Deutsch reden :) ------------------------- - Louie -

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On Break! Responses could take 48 hrs or more. Till then have chocolates 🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫 Glad you are here. :) “The moth prefers the moon and detests the sun, while the butterfly loves the sun and hides from the moon. Every living creature responds to light. But depending on the amount of light you have inside, determines which lamp in the sky your heart will swoon." “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars." “Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror."