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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here : AL 1 Updates - tinyurl.com/5atmkecv AL2 Updates - tinyurl.com/2x54ymp5 AL3 Updates - tinyurl.com/mvdm4j5e  AL4 Updates - tinyurl.com/3ssp6pwf To know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need help or guidance on your ongoing chats.

I am passionate about helping people. So interested and passionate to bring about positive change to individuals, families, groups, and Communities.

💤 CURRENTLY NOT TAKING IN NEW MEMBERS; I'M ON A SELF-CARE BREAK. THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING. 💤 🌧️ I'm CS, short for Celestial Sapphire. You can also call me Sapphire if you feel like it. I am here to offer whatever kind of conversations you need: random talks, deep conversations, philosophical discussions, current events, our favourite books and films, and how music affects us... whatever helps you, please let me. Never underestimate the power of conversations. So, what do you want to talk about? I'm waiting :) 🌧️ === Polymath. Hardcore stargazer. Sunset worshipper. Astrophile. Pluviophile. Nyctophile. Thalassophile. Logophile. Selenophile. Empath. Capricorn sun. Pisces moon. Scorpio rising/ascendant. Aquarius Venus. INFJ-A Life Path 8  HSP ADHD === THIS IS A POEM THAT I TRY MY BEST AND HARDEST TO LIVE BY EVERY SINGLE DAY :) DESIDERATA Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for, in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. = Max Ehrmann <3 === Please consider the topics I am open to discussing (listed in a separate section). I get members who have concerns about issues I normally would not be comfortable discussing because: * I have never had that experience ergo I won't be able to help you much; * I am not confident that the experiences I had regarding those issues have made me the ideal person to talk to as it might have affected me negatively and I am still in the process of healing from it; and * I am not trained to handle some specific issues about mental health and you'd be better talking to someone who is I don't turn my back on everyone who wants to talk to me, but please manage your expectations :) In case I am unavailable, so many beautiful lightworkers are willing to listen to you and help you process your thoughts and emotions. You can find them here:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ === Graduated from 7 Cups Internship with honours Graduated from the Content Development and Marketing Program with honours Graduated from the Leadership Development Program with honours

Hello, I'm always here to help, I'm fine with talking about most things and I'm always here if you ever want to just chat a bit or want to talk about anything that's been bothering you! <3 Please don't be afraid to reach out to me, remember that this is a safe place and I nor anyone else will ever make fun of you. Also, even if I'm offline don't be scared to leave a message! I'll get back to you as soon as possible ( ´ ▽ ` )b

"The reason for evil in the world is that people are not able to tell their stories" (Carl Jung). I've also noticed how different people navigate the same situations differently. Sharing is therefore healthy and important! I'm here to let you do exactly that and find your own growth. All Ears For You! 🙂🙏

Please note I have been on and off in activity since I was most active in 2021. This is due to my external occupations and academics which makes sticking around here difficult sometimes. My roles on 7 Cups Group Support Room Project Leader (Inactive) Group Support Mentor Leader (Inactive) Global Group Support Moderator (ACTIVE) Group Support Mentor (Inactive) Listener Quality Mentor (Inactive) Listener Chatroom Mentor (Inactive) Safety Outreach Team (Inactive) Safety Discussion Team (Inactive) Safety Patrol Team (ACTIVE) LDP Mentor (Inactive) Listener Chat Supporter (Inactive) Listener Peer Supporter (Inactive) Trauma Support Discussion Host (Inactive) Doorkeeper (Inactive)  Adult-Teen Listener / ATL (ACTIVE) I have direct lived experience with peer violence, substance abuse, self-harm, depression, PTSD, childhood sexual abuse, sexual violence, addiction, breakups, domestic violence, and family, relationship, work, and student stress.  If you have any questions, do feel free to send a message and I'll try my best to help out.

Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm).  Interests: Narrative Psychology, Mythology, Children Literature, Public Health, Mental Health, becoming a Doctoral student in Public Health or Healthcare Administration, Leadership, and Sociology of Health.  7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 

Feel free to send a personal request, I answer all of them. Hi! I'm Dan, and I love listening to people. I'm 30 and speak to any age. I look forward to speaking to you and don't be afraid to open up!. I work full time so I'm not on much, but I will try to help whenever I'm on.  I also love making friends if you just want someone to talk to about your day or anything else you'd like.

Hi! I have to take some time away right now, flying south for the summer. Stay strong. You can do this! 🦋❤️🦋 Right now I am busy with my long-term members and I am not taking on any new ones. So if you have messaged me I urge you to seek another listener using the https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  link. There you can search using the filter option. I will update here when things change.  ~~~*~~~  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 in the near future, or if you have already turned 18 and feel like some more support then you can apply for one of the Teen Transition Mentor Team, including me, to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behaviour toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant!

''Every saint has a PAST and every sinner has a FUTURE If you are feeling broken, know that I have been there before and it is harder being there alone. I am here for you. I have tried and failed more than once but I have also tried and succeeded more than once. There are those problems that we cannot share with our loved ones. This is because of the fear that they may judge you 😏 or worse laugh at you 😂. You can always be free with me. I am a  listener who does not judge.👂 I have faced a number of hardships and sharing them has given me the ENERGY to overcome them. You can tell me anything. I believe that a problem shared is a problem half solved. ------------------------- * I DON'T YET HAVE A RELIABLE SCHEDULE BUT I WILL POST ONE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE  * I DO 1 HOUR ACTIVE-LISTENING CHATS UNLESS STATED OTHERWISE. * IF I'M NOT ONLINE, FEEL FREE TO: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ ------------------------- ''No matter the pain we endure, it must come a time when we must pick ourselves up and continue with our journey. SO YOU CAN GO ON BEING LONELY AND  MISSING WHAT YOU HAD, OR YOU CAN MOVE ON TO SOMETHING NEW  AND  WONDERFUL WHAT'S NEW AND EXCITING? 1. HAPPINESS  “You can't wait until life isn't hard anymore, before you decide to be happy.” -Nightbirde- 2. POSITIVITY "Pessimistic people live miserable lives." TROLLS (2016) Branch: You don't know anything, Poppy. And I can't wait to see the look on your face when you realize the world isn't all cupcakes and rainbows. 'Cause it isn't. Bad things happen, and there's nothing you can do about it. Poppy: Hey, I know it's NOT all cupcakes and rainbows but I'd rather go through life thinking that it MOSTLY is instead of being like YOU. You don't sing, you don't dance... So gray all the time. 3. LOVE “A life lived in love will never be dull." FROZEN (2013) "Only an act of Love can thaw a Frozen heart." 4. COUNTING YOUR BLESSINGS  "When everything is going all wrong, it is probably wise to count your blessings. Make lists of all the things that you should be happy about. Think of all those good things. Focus on them." INSIDE OUT (2015) Joy: Look, I get it. You guys have concerns. But we've been through worse! Tell you what: let's make a list of all the things Riley should be HAPPY about! Anger: Fine. Let's see... this house stinks, our room stinks... Disgust: Pizza is weird here... Sadness: Our friends are back home... Fear: And all of our stuff is in the missing van! Joy: Oh c'mon, it could be worse... Disgust: Yeah, Joy. We could be lying on the dirty floor. In a bag. Joy: Okay, I admit it, we had a rough start. But think of all the good things... It's important that everyone knows, (you are) so much more than all the bad things that (have) happened to (you). -NIGHTBIRDE-

READ BIO BEFORE MESSAGING.  due to my roles and personal life, I may not always accept chat requests Browse Listeners I only take *teen* (-18) chats. If you are an adult (+18) member, please reach out to somebody else. I do not speak the Polish language. Only taking chats in English. In order to chat with me, please schedule a time with me to do so (at least 24hrs before appointed time). Due to my work, my availability is not fixed. Chats are to be scheduled according to my weekly schedules. important to know that chat sessions with me last anywhere from 30-40 minutes. I also *do not* take casual chats. 🌺 Hi there! Welcome to my page :) I am Kate, a young woman from Greece. I am currently working in customer service, and i plan on studying psychology or English philology in university. I initially joined this site to get support in regards to my at the time relationship, and decided to also join as a Listener, doing exactly what I plan on having as my profession in a few years from now: be there for people. My main role here is to be there for you no matter what you go through, no matter how big or small it is. And no matter how many roles I take on on this site, I will still be here for you. For that is my main goal, my biggest contribution to this community. 🥰 Some of my hobbies include: dancing, writing, reading books playing (romance, fantasy, mythology and non-fiction), filming videos, playing final fantasy 14 as well as taking pictures. 🌺 I am only available for supportive conversations on the topics listed on my profile. For any other topic, please contact another listener. Thank you! 🌺 My contribution to this community goes beyond being a Listener. Here are some other roles I have taken up: Verified Listener. I have been verified by the community for my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. That means the community expects of me to maintain professional, kind, open-minded and understanding towards you at all times. Chat Supporter. I am considered a listener who has expertise in the role of a listener and is eligible to provide specialized support to listeners on 7cups in regards to their role/supportive chat. Peer Supporter. I am considered a listener who is capable of listening to fellow listeners after a difficult chat with a member and provide support and show empathy to them after this tough situation they were in. Global Moderator. I ensure a welcoming and safe space for everyone in the member community chat rooms. I am found quite often there, especially in the Teen Community Chatroom. Pass by and say hi! Doorkeeper. I can open and close community rooms. If you need a room opened or closed, you are welcome to contact me. Community Mentor Leader for the Relationship Stress community. I overview the Relationship Stress community and forums. Are you interested in joining the team? Let me know! Safety Patrol Team Member. I flag profiles that go against the website guidelines. 🌺 My status usually indicates: Green: I am online and ready to take a chat. Orange: I am online but busy, which means my responses will be slower - not taking any chats. Red: I am offline - not taking new chats. You can leave me a message to set an appointment during that time. Expected response time is 24-48 hours after your message is sent. If you receive no response within that time range, feel free to send me a message again (I may sometimes forget to respond, so excuse me for that :P) Message me and let's schedule a chat! 🌺

[Not Active] Hello there! Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm Dream, a listener here since January 2020. I'm here to provide a safe and non judgmental place for you to share your thoughts or feelings.  Unfortunately I'm not able to take 1-1 support chats currently. Please click here to view other available listeners. Some topics I'm more suited to provide support includes depression, anxiety, panic attacks, self-harm, student life and a few other I've mentioned in the 'categories' session below. Please note that I do not take any chats on sexual health or related topics. Thank you for understanding! I believe that personal development and self-improvement is a life long journey of trial and error. We are all work in progress and we all deserve respect and understanding in the process of self-discovery. ------------------------- My listener twins: @positivePumpkin22 and @lueurspace