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A wound is where the light enters your soul!
Number of ratings175 Number of reviews85 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceNov 9, 2017 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 1,497 People helped383 Chats3,602 Group support chats1,407 Listener group chats1,279 Forum posts8,890 Forum upvotes17,745
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Hi! I have to take some time away right now, flying south for the summer. Stay strong. You can do this!

🦋❤️🦋

Right now I am busy with my long-term members and I am not taking on any new ones. So if you have messaged me I urge you to seek another listener using the https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  link. There you can search using the filter option. I will update here when things change. 

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 "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need.

If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back?


If you are a teen turning 18 in the near future, or if you have already turned 18 and feel like some more support then you can apply for one of the Teen Transition Mentor Team, including me, to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM

If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6 


At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax. 

ONE STEP AT A TIME
"We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life.
Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction.
Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while,
Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves.
But each and every footstep is important in so many ways.
Ways that we may not even know about.

Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow." 
Listening ... one step at a time


Quote of Acceptance
When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger,
When we accept it, it becomes tolerance.











When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear,
When we accept it, it becomes an adventure, 
When we don't accept other's bad behaviour toward us, it becomes hatred,
When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness.
When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy
When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration.
Acceptance is the key to handling life well !!


Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time!

"Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill)












"Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli)

Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant!


























































































































































































































































Recent forum posts
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Happy 'House' Party! say Farewell 😭 then say Helloooo! 🥳😁
Aging Up Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
January 21st
...See more We have another enthusiastic teen who will be aging-up and joining the older-side this week! They may be newish, but already they have made an impact with their writing and wisdom, so I am sure I do not need to say anymore apart from let's give this House a huge teenie farewell and then a massive oldie welcome! @enthusiasticHouse3272 Tag your friends and join in the fun! clickety click> All about aging-up is here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/2026AllAbout18andAgingUp_372387/] <clickety click These are people that recently showed interest in this community, so if you would prefer not to be tagged in future then please just reply below and let us know. Taglist https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/ @andrewtan99 @Aninfp @AsilentObserver @AquaNyo303 @daydreammemories @fossilfellow @Kayleethecatlover @Mino1522 @MistyMagic @NobleSeeker @PeanutbutterTheSystem @JoyfulAndSpacious @bloom126 @brightApricot4820 @determinedHuman6138 @Heather225 @hopefulSmiles6137 @jaboo @nide12 @njjjj @pikaTangerine1 @shadowbeing @soulsings @starryWillow9852 @sweetsummerday @sympatheticMoon3961 @torakkii @wishfulWillow7295  @calmoon2104 @Amanda84
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Bailey's Goodbye 😭 and Hello!🥳😁
Aging Up Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
January 7th
...See more We have another aging-up journey about to begin this week! @WatermelonLover22 will be joining the fun side of 7 Cups! So let's all join together and say goodbye 😭 and then a huge adulting welcome 🥳😁 Yessss! You will love the new opportunities that you will see!  So let's all join together and say goodbye 😭 and then a huge adulting welcome 🥳😁 Yessss! You will love the new opportunities that you will see! Add or remove yourself in this thread Here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/AgingUpSupportCommunityTaglist_351372/] @andrewtan99 @Aninfp @AsilentObserver @AquaNyo303 @daydreammemories @fossilfellow @Kayleethecatlover @Mino1522 @MistyMagic @NobleSeeker @PeanutbutterTheSystem @JoyfulAndSpacious @bloom126 @brightApricot4820 @determinedHuman6138 @Heather225 @hopefulSmiles6137 @jaboo @nide12 @njjjj @pikaTangerine1 @shadowbeing @soulsings @starryWillow9852 @sweetsummerday @sympatheticMoon3961 @torakkii @wishfulWillow7295  Here is the link to request a Teen Transition Mentor (TTM) to reach out to you  https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]   Helpful Links for Turning 18 FAQ helpful tips about aging-up https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/TeenTransitionFAQs_337189/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/TeenTransitionFAQs_337189/]  All About ATL (Adult - Teen Listener) https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/]  You should become an ATL because . . https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/?p=3 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/?p=3] 
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2026 - All About 18! and Aging Up! ✨
Aging Up Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
January 13th
...See more Celebrate Your 18th Birthday With Us! This is the beginning of a new year and for many of you this will also mark the beginning of a new episode of your life - Adulthood - when you reach 18! At 7 Cups when you reach 18 you will be switched to the adult 18+ side. This happens at midnight 12:00 GMT.*  Why 12:00 GMT? I have no idea, but it has to be some time so why not lol? ~ What is the Teen Transition Mentor Team ~ We have a whole team on hand to offer you support. The Teen Transition Mentor Team (TTM) has the knowledge and information needed to support you through all changes. - We can answer all your questions - We can buddy you when you visit the 18+ chatrooms. - We can show you how to keep in contact with your teen friends - We can offer support and share knowledge of the differences between teen-side and 18+ side Here is the Request Form https://forms.gle/WymZKAHD7SnVDpnLA [https://forms.gle/WymZKAHD7SnVDpnLA]   Just a short form to fill in. and then a teen transition mentor, or one of the team, will reach out to you and answer all your questions, and support you through the process. It’s fun and friendly, and together we can make it better! Here are some more information posts to help you during this time:- Growing Old Is Compulsory, Growing Up Is Optional! 17 - 18 years old? Read on Here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/SeventeenToEighteenReadon_353203/] The Aging Up Support community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/] Aging Up Support Thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportThread_216653/] Join the Aging Up Support tag list here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/AgingUpSupportCommunityTaglist_351372/] Review your TTM or give team feedback [https://forms.gle/m3Kbqwyo6PWJtVX68] ~ What is an ATL ~ You will see these three letters A T L in lots of places, including profiles, and in the teen rooms. The listeners that hold this badge are all 18+ and they have been trained to listen to teens and adults. They have had a background check and an interview with an admin. Here is a post all about ATL’s Here is the ATL application form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewformhttps://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform] Join the TTM Team When you are an ATL you will then become eligible to join the TTM Team and share your wisdom and knowledge of the aging-up process and help support other teens. Here is the form to apply to be a TTM https://forms.gle/UQyQ4JtmenxZCscy8 [https://forms.gle/UQyQ4JtmenxZCscy8]  We look forward to sharing this exciting time with you! *Rarely, there will be a few of you, members that joined us at a young age, who will be switched to the adult side at the end of their birthday month. This is because we never used to ask members their birth day, only their birth month and year. Now we ask for a full birthdate. So now we can move people exactly on their birthday.
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✨2026✨ New Year - New You? 🌞💜🥳
Disability Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
January 7th
...See more Happy New Year!!!  Wishing you all a very happy and healthy new year! So, I have some questions for you all. ..... What do you want in 2026? What do you want to see here in the Disability Support Community? Topics? Live discussions in the forum? More contact and support? You tell us and we will try and make your wishes come true! or . . . .  no more new year questions lol! But, what is one small tip you can share with the community to ease pain and improve health?
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✨✨December Sparkles! ✨✨
Aging Up Support / by MistyMagic
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December 8th, 2025
...See more ✨✨December Sparkles! ✨✨ There is always something special about December and this time I am saying anything that sparkles goes! Yes, I love sparkly things, just look at my butterfly! But, also, sparkles are so playful, they keep us young and having fun. ✨ So what do you love about December? ✨  Or, do you prefer another month? ✨ 1. Tell us one thing about yourself that is fun, or cool, or just typical of you! ✨  ✨ 2. What are you glad to say goodbye to this year? ✨  ✨ 3. What are you looking forward to next year! ✨  ✨ 4. What might you decide to change next year starting January 1st? ✨ 
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Ria's Goodbye 😭 ~~~> Hello! 😀🥳
Aging Up Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
December 2nd, 2025
...See more ........A transition thread..... This is a special thread...... . 🥳 A Party thread!. 🥳 A thread that will guide, and follow @hardtobeRia in their journey from teen to oldie! We all know that the thought of transitioning from 17 to 18 can seem daunting, and at 7 Cups we have a special way to mark the 18th birthday by transitioning the teen to the 18+ adult side of 7 Cups! So if you know Ria, please reply or if you have good wishes to share then please reply too and tag more! Or if you have transitioned from 17 to 18 share your tips and tricks too! @aquaaaaa @CommunityModAlex @CommunityModLucy @cozyshadow14 @hardtobeRia  @Julieo0o0 @kitsies @MistyMagic @SingingOcean4 Add or remove yourself in this thread Here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/WelcomeIcebreakersCheckins_2544/AgingUpSupportCommunityTaglist_351372/] @andrewtan99 @Aninfp @AsilentObserver @AquaNyo303 @daydreammemories @fossilfellow @Kayleethecatlover @Mino1522 @MistyMagic @NobleSeeker @PeanutbutterTheSystem @JoyfulAndSpacious @bloom126 @brightApricot4820 @determinedHuman6138 @Heather225 @hopefulSmiles6137 @jaboo @nide12 @njjjj @pikaTangerine1 @shadowbeing @soulsings @starryWillow9852 @sweetsummerday @sympatheticMoon3961 @torakkii @wishfulWillow7295  Here is the link to request a Teen Transition Mentor (TTM) to reach out to you  https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]   Helpful Links for Turning 18 FAQ helpful tips about aging-up https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/TeenTransitionFAQs_337189/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/TeenTransitionFAQs_337189/]  All About ATL (Adult - Teen Listener) https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/]  You should become an ATL because . . https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/?p=3 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/?p=3] 
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The First Thing . . . .
Aging Up Support / by MistyMagic
Last post
May 1st
...See more Hey Everyone! Time for an ice-breaker, check-in, fun question .  .  .  What was, or is, the first thing You are going to say, do, or eat when you are 18? 😀The first thing I am going to say is 💃The first thing I am going to do is 😍The first thing I am going to eat is If you could organise anything for your 18th what would you choose?
Feedback & Reviews
Their guidance really helped me during this hard time
Misty is an incredible person, kind and understanding. The world is better because they’re in it!
Amazingly kind mentor, so support
Misty is Amazing! Seriously helpful and thoughtful. Beautiful Soul
Misty so nice caring she help me so much when have questions things or don’t understand stuff
Misty is wonderful and is sincere with her empathy. A true friend.
Always helpful 🦋
Misty quickly and efficiently helped me. Thank you!
Incredibly supportive, awesome chat!
Chatting with Misty is like chatting to an old friend. Mentioning a little thing turns into opening up about things I didn't even know were ruminating under the surface. Wonderfully supportive.
Thank YOU for being so very kind to me!!
Super helpful! And kind and genuinely cares 😁
Thank you for tell me all this
Lighthearted and understanding. Grateful for this conversation!
Very friendly and kind
Helpful and kind.
Very helpful 👍🏼
She is FABULOUS!!!!!!!!!
Amazing listener, very patient and accepting. So kind and supportive, really what I needed. Never too busy to help :) Thank you so, so much :)
Thank you for everything you do on 7 cups! You are an amazing leader and listener! Never too busy to help and support anyone that needs help. Stay amazing and let your Magic continue here on cups
One of the best Listeners ever would highly recommend and wish all were like Misty !! she is really is so magical !! Thank you for always being such a blessing !
Amazingly kind and really understanding.
Shes the best listener someone could ask for, she was always there for me supporting at all times and making me feel safe. She never judges and will always listen no matter what. Kind, empathetic, optimistic and you feel like cozy and warm, safe protected
Misty is a wonderful listener and who really tries to keep 7 Cups a safe, supportive place.
Off to a good start. I really appreciate the time and care MistyMagic gave!
MistyMagic was very empathetic, knowledgeable and responsible. Really appreciated the response time and the encouragements given. Definitely a 5 star:)
MistyMagic was very helpful and resourceful. I have been going through a tough time and MistyMagic took time to listen without judging. I felt they were very sincere and kind
Very good listener. Seems to understand
Friendly, responsive and provided resources.
She's really great to talk to
Amazing listener and supporter and beautiful human being xxx
I love misty they r the best butterflytastic listener
It's hard to find words to express my gratitude. I needed someone to listen, to understand, to tell me it was okay to feel how I felt. Misty gave me that, and more. We shared a few good laughs and I feel like I can sleep peacefully tonight. Thank you. Just...thank you.
Very kind, good in situations,
Very helpful, I enjoyed our chat and will try 7 Cups again now I know more about it, thanks I feel better and more hopeful now!
Misty has been working with me for nearly a year now an i can never thank her enough for everything she has helped me through. It felt like i was a nobody an had nothing when i first came here but slowly over time i can see thats not true. She helped me see the good parts about myself and encouraged me to be the best i can be because thats always enough. I cant imagine not having a misty xxx
Misty helped me feel so much better, that life has more to offer. I will keep talking to them
Misty has been an amazing listener supporting me over many months through a difficult time in my life. She's amazing- warm, kind and considerate, funny, helpful. Can't thank you enough xxx
Misty was great. Didn't judge and listened carefully. Also didn't give me false hope.
She was great.
As this was my first experience with this site MistyMagic put me at ease from the start and was very understanding and sympathetic to my issues. Problems are better shared and because of today i have now a plan in place to address these. Felt like i was talking to a long time friend. Thank you for your help and patience
Great! She understands what one is going through
Really listens with an empathic ear. She made it easy to talk about embarrassing things. Thank you a million!
Very nice and supportive. My situation does not have an easy solution so it's mostly support I need and she certainly is providing that.
Truly amazing person
I had a great experience with mistymagic. She is truly empathetic and understanding. Thank you so much for helping me in figuring out what can be done to some my problem.
Misty is a superstar. She has listened to me regularly over many months during a difficult time in my life. She allows me to talk about difficult and sensitive issues but also we speak on more lighthearted things too which makes me laugh. I really appreciate Misty's support more than I can say.
So sweet
She is a great listener.
Really nice and relaxing chat. Really helping to take my mind off of things
Great
Misty has been my guardian angel over the last few months. She's been there to listen to me, to be a sounding board and reflect my thoughts and feelings. She's been non-judgemental and non-directive but also helpful, caring, funny, smart.
She's really helped me through one of the toughest times in my life. THANK YOU!!
Lovely listener x
I loved the way , the advices were given . Thanks alot .
Such warmth and genuine connection, really enjoyed reading her responses. Terrific time spent.
really helpful :)
She is amazing and I think I is going to be really helpful
Amazing person
Wow, this person’s words are so nice and uplifting. It feels easy to talk to Misty, and she/he does a brilliliant job making me feel better. To accept this persons kindness is so heartfelt, I remind myself to accept in the kindness. It is soooo nice there’s strangers willing to bring peace, happiness, and comfort to another human, and this is what Misty has done for me.
Great listeners and a great support! I felt understood and I would not hesitate to contact her again!
Great listener to chat with.
a truly great, kind, understanding listener! Theres nothing you could´ve done better. a blessing to this website!!
Friendly and good listener
They were genuine and laid back. They helped so much and I had such a nice time chatting to them, distracted me from my problem and I felt so much better after talking to them.
Good listener. Thanks
from dilemmas to pizza preferences, this is your girl haha
Misty owns a heart of gold and the wisdom of rare stones.
a very kind soul
MistyMagic took the time to understand what was going on, clarified if need be and tried to understand all the factors. I really appreciate talking with MistyMagic. Thank you again MistyMagic!
I appreciate that MistyMagic took the time to fully understand my situation and let me speak. MistyMagic's response time was very quick, and sensitive to my matter.
Excellent listener, very compassionate and willing to help. Gave me some really excellent suggestions and feedback.
Misty has been an amazing listener there with me through a very difficult time without judgement, but with calmness and kindness. Thank you so much Misty!
She made me laugh. Angel
very helpful. gives you practical strategies
Truly amazing person truly cares about people heart of gold helped me in my time of need
caring person
Great person to interact with. I was able to open my heart and get best out of the situation.
Very friendly!
sweet person
Very kind and considerate
A great person who listen and who cares about people . I was crying and then i felt okay after talking with Misty .
Misty is a good person :)
Mistymagic has been very responsive and helpful towards me when I needed someone to talk to
Such a sweetheart... always uplifting and understanding.
Mistymagic really created an atmosphere where I could share things with without feeling judged. I ended the conversation with a much better control on my emotions than what I had before I started the conversation. Really appreciate all the efforts and time invested.
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