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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

DonyPony
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I'm a open minded person. Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.  Wishing you all the best his year that you may grow like a tree peaceful with no worries and wild with no boundaries 
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PolarCat
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Hi there, I am married and have two kids.  I have personal experience with depression, anxiety, and parenting a child with autism.  However, I am comfortable discussing a wide range of topics so feel free to leave me a message and we can schedule a time to chat.    I am LGBTQ+ friendly.   My chats:   I do scheduled chats for 45 minutes with the option for a 15 minute follow up chat at a later date, if necessary.  However, at this time I am not taking repeat/long term chats.  If you require a long term listener then I can help you to find one who is able to work with you.   Also, I prefer not to take chats on Eating Disorders or medical issues.   Please note:  I get many PMs every day so sometimes it takes me a couple days to reply.  Thanks for your patience. My status:   Online:  I am online and available to take a chat. Busy:  I am busy with chats or projects on the site.  You can leave me a message and I will respond when I can.  I may or may not respond before I log off. Offline:  I am not presently online or I am busy with projects/chats.  You can leave a message and I will get back to you at my earliest convenience. My roles here: Quality Ambassador | Verified Listener Team | Grading & Feedback for Active Listening training | Peer Support    
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AllyLovesListening
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' You might be sad because you’ve been through a lot, but you should also be proud of yourself for being strong enough to make it through everything you’ve been through...✨' ————————————————————————————  𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙. 𝙎𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 -  8:30 — 9:30 𝘼𝙈  2:30 — 3:30 𝙋𝙈  7:00 — 9:00 𝙋𝙈  𝙊𝙛𝙛-𝘿𝙪𝙩𝙮 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 :  10:00 𝘼𝙈 —2:00 𝙋𝙈 4:00 𝙋𝙈 — 6:30 𝙋𝙈 9:30 𝙋𝙈 — 8:00 𝘼𝙈 ______________________________________ 𝙄𝙣𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩/𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙧𝙚𝙜𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝙝𝙞𝙩 𝙢𝙚 𝙪𝙥. 𝙄'𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙧𝙮 𝙢𝙮 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙤𝙪𝙩!  ___________ " 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙖𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙖 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜.  𝙄𝙩𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙪 :𝙥  (𝙇𝙞𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞 𝙘𝙖𝙣/𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚)  * 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 * 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 * 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙎𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙭𝙞𝙚𝙩𝙮 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝙎𝙘𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙡 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝘽𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝙄𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝙁𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨, 𝘼𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝘿𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝘼𝙣𝙭𝙞𝙚𝙩𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚!  ____________________________ *𝙁𝙧𝙖𝙜𝙞𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩* (𝙉𝙤 𝙖𝙙𝙫𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙙 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙮 𝙗𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙛𝙪𝙡/𝙪𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨) __________________________ *𝙞𝙛*  𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙤𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙤𝙣/𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙨𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙛𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙚𝙣𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝, 𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙢𝙚 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬. 𝙎𝙤, 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙙𝙤 𝙢𝙮 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪!  *𝙞𝙛*  𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙖𝙙𝙫𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙣, 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙙𝙤𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙡𝙮!  *𝙞𝙛*  𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙣 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙀𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙥𝙞𝙨𝙩/𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧. __________________________ "𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙙𝙪𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚, 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙥𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚"                                                         𝙎𝘼𝙔𝙊𝙉𝘼𝙍𝘼! 💕
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HappyHuman1
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I'm a person who thinks everything can be solved after talking out. It's a great means of communication. And listening to people is something I like because I never had that person. Here to listen to you. Your new friend. A listening ear.
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lucy2
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Please note I listen to teens only at present. Hello my friends, I am pleased to say I am now available to take chats, you can also leave me a message and I will get back to you asap<3 I am so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea! My roles on 7cups I am the Community Mentor Leader for General Support. (Previously) Adult / Teen Listener Needs reply team (Previously) Door Keeper Global Moderator I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener  and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap. Chat soon Lucy2 <3
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confidentRabbit7311
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Hi there! I'm  Rabbit or Lani , and I'm a listener here on 7 Cups. I'm passionate about helping others find their inner strength and resilience, and I believe that everyone deserves a safe and supportive space to explore their thoughts and feelings.  When I'm not listening on 7 Cups, you can find me hiking in the great outdoors , by the beach or curled up with my pets. I'm here to support you as best as I can, so please don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to, I will reply as soon as possible. I understand some days are rougher than others but we can always try to look for the positives !! I like to think of life is like a roller coaster we have our ups and down moments.  I believe that everyone has an opportunity to heal and grow, and that sometimes all it takes is someone to listen with an open heart and mind.  My approach to listening is non-judgmental, empathetic, and collaborative. I'm here to support you in exploring your thoughts and feelings, and to help you find your own path forward. I'm honored to be a part of this community!  I'm passionate about personal growth and development, and I'm always looking for new ways to deepen my understanding of myself and others.  Whether you're struggling with a specific issue or just looking for someone to talk to, I'm here to listen. Thank you for considering me as your listener, and I look forward to connecting with you soon!  Topics I don’t take due to not enough knowledge + past experiences  sexual health  Pregnancy  Foster care Spiritually  Thank you for browsing my profile  Here’s some cookies 🍪🍪🍪 💕 My amazing cup twins;  bluerivercares and princesspunch💕
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SteadyVibin92
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Hello my names is Manny! If you ever need someone to talk to about anything please let me know, I know what’s it’s like to feel alone and I don’t think anyone should ever feel that way . Please reach out! I will try my best to make it work 🖤
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Dana13
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
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blue0cean
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Hey, my name is Gaye! I'm here to help and support you, so please feel free to reach out to me whenever you want and need and I will try my best to be there for you. Have a nice day and take care!💗 -currently on a break, not taking in any chats- 
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SilverSeastar
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Hello! I'm Silver.    (⊃。•́‿•̀。)⊃━⭑・゚゚・*:༅。.。༅:*゚:*:✼✿  I'm here to listen to you with empathy and support you with compassion. 💙  I have struggled with BPD (borderline personality disorder), NPD (narcissistic personality disorder), panic attacks, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and family stress. These are the topics I'm comfortable with, but feel free to message me about other topics you'd like to talk about.  Status Icons  🟢 Online—I am active and available for live chats.  🟠 Busy—I am online, but my replies may be slow.  🔴 Offline—I am occupied or offline. Kindly expect that it might take a while for me to reply.  。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🍪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 My Current Roles Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] Adult-teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/] Academy Mentor (CDM) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/content/CDMAnnouncementsandUpdates_2194/CDMMentorRole_274485/] Forum Supporter (Content Volunteer Team) [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSehAkk72S0RWV1oQ5zShECQ6s-_fDYaxPE974iHorzqNRo1Ag/viewform] ------------------------- 7 Cups Academy Quality Listening Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyQualityListeningProgramLaunch_238010/] Content Development and Marketing Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/7CupsAcademyContentDevelopmentandMarketingCDMProgram_236685/] 7 Cups Internship Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/Jointhe7CupsInternshipProgram_238009/] Leadership Development Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/LeadershipDevelopmentCourseStartHere_2118/LeadershipDevelopmentProgramBecomealeader_288442/] Community Building Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/CommunityBuildingCourse_2308/CommunityBuildingCourse_291468/] Time Management Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyTimeManagementCourse_280718/] ------------------------- Previous Roles Forum Supporter (Personality Disorders Support) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/] On-spot Host (Listener Sharing Circle) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/LCDHostingOpportunitiesListenerSharingCircle_257571/] Project Agent (Listener Events Team) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ProjectAgentsWantedListenerChatroomTrack_264063/] Forum Team Member (Listener Learning & Journey) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/?rid=17140016] 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🦪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 (∩^o^)⊃━☆ My Listener Twinnies:  @horizon22 @BlueRiverCares @Mellifluous11 [https://www.7cups.com/@Mellifluous11] @jasishereforallofu; 💫 I miss you, @fallenAngel19 @LexIris @Goodhomespring. 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🐙 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。
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YellowRose27
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roy13
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I believe "Gender preference does not define you. Your spirit defines you." ― P.C. Cast, Awakened So.. Just .. feel free to talk to me :)
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