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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Richguy18
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Trying my best to help :)
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TrueNorthStrong
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Hey there. Come say hi! I'm here to give you a nonjudgmental space where you can totally be yourself. There's no pressure to be anything you're not here. We go where you want to go and at your pace. I'm 31 from Canada. I like the simple things in life. I have lots of experience on focusing on self growth and change. I hope some of my experience can help you in whatever you're facing I don't take relationship or break up chats I'm excited to meet you!
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Satori44
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*** Can't accept new members at the moment *** https://youtu.be/O4J_M_hClEg?si=zxj6c_ehNLj4fSRl [https://youtu.be/O4J_M_hClEg?si=zxj6c_ehNLj4fSRl] [https://youtu.be/O4J_M_hClEg?si=zxj6c_ehNLj4fSRl] The only way to recognise and learn to use your own power is to become acquainted with your darkness.⚡ 🕯️I am here to guide, and help you shake hands with your 'shadow', so that you might have the chance to discover it is not to be feared. I will offer my authenticity but will not tolerate disrespect of any kind, nor inquiries into my personal life, which I consider indiscreet. I am able to listen for brief periods of time, do not take appointments, and I am only able to offer support to a select few members needing a long-term listener. I do not discuss anything *illegal* (or activities/interests highly frowned upon in society), examples including: criminal activity such as murder, incest, child abuse, rape, etc. when those activities are in any way part of your real or imagined interest.  🍋Lemon juice in your eyes is probably what it might feel like when you talk to me, because I don't coddle... https://youtu.be/7HMKFDA0E8g?feature=shared [https://youtu.be/7HMKFDA0E8g?feature=shared] No 🚫 casual/boredom/loneliness chats.  This is not a dating site. Do NOT request a chat if you consider yourself part of the incel community, find you fit the type, or otherwise feel incapable of attracting women in real life. *I also do not discuss the following topics: any kind of fluid sexuality concerns, and/or gender identity issues, self-harm, autism spectrum, ADHD/attention deficit disorders, OCD; men's sexual problems, infidelity and/or divorces, adoption & foster care, racial and cultural identity, depression, and social anxiety. ***The incentive for therapists is to treat the least sick for the longest amount of time*** For the general population: be mindful of putting your money and your mind in the hands of such...   Topics I am comfortable with [note that this does not mean I have personally struggled with your problem]: - Relationship Stress (love, family, work, etc.) - Managing emotions (*BPD & Bipolar accepted) - Addiction - Emotional, verbal, physical and/or sexual abuse - Lifestyle changes ("Getting Unstuck") - Eating Disorder - Women's issues - Spirituality  I do not believe in medicalising events in your life that are considered challenging.  Please view the topics I discuss prior to messaging.  Useful Links/Resources: To learn about inner peace and how to cultivate it 🌱: https://eckharttolle.com/ [https://eckharttolle.com/] 🎙️ Podcasts 🪞Modern Wisdom #751 - Macken Murphy: What Does Science Say Makes Someone Attractive: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7jA5CegsjDSCV6deCuVIposi=wQLenmyGTDafnNpiyMjKLQ&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A0XrOqvxlqQI6bmdYHuIVnr [https://open.spotify.com/episode/7jA5CegsjDSCV6deCuVIpo?si=wQLenmyGTDafnNpiyMjKLQ&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A0XrOqvxlqQI6bmdYHuIVnr] 📚Books For understanding the roots of sexual conflict: When Men Behave Badly presents a unifying new theory of sexual conflict, and offers practical advice for men and women seeking to avoid it. David M. Buss - When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault https://a.co/d/3AxoUZR Pete Walker - Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A GUIDE AND MAP FOR RECOVERING FROM CHILDHOOD TRAUMA https://a.co/d/g8JLWmZ  David Goggins - Can't Hurt Me (highly recommend the audiobook format, narrated by the author): https://www.audible.ca/pd/Cant-Hurt-Me-Audiobook/B07KKPGDZF Susan Cain - Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking https://a.co/d/dhWnOnN  Eckhart Tolle - The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment https://a.co/d/3DRWImp   ⭐️ Lastly, for tons of great audio content to help with nervous system regulation, meditation and relaxation: Download Insight Timer - free app (with donation based system) offering ad free meditation music, calming music, guided meditations/courses, and more. https://insighttimer.com/en-ca 🎼
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Deschain
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Hello everyone! Hit me up with a message if you need me. If I'm online but I don't answer, it means I fell asleep. Hola a todos! mándenme un mensaje si me necesitan. Si estoy online pero no respondo, significa que me quedé dormido.
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NoJudgingNoAdvising
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I also offer the Listening facility under Islamic guidance for Muslims over the globe.  I will hear you. I will not judge you. Verified listener. I can't listen to the issues like girl friend, boy friend, lgbtq and music.
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SirenOfSerenity
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🚫⚠️ Topics I don't prefer are: Sexual Topics, Relationship Stress/Breakups, Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, PTSD or Casual Chats. Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, OCD and PTSD are the topics I lack personal experience in. * My chat availability is 30 minutes to 1 hour maximum * You can view the topics I accept in my profile's "Categories" section 🪷  ------------------------- Pronouns: She/Her, Age: 28, Eastern Standard Time Zone 🇺🇲  You can call me Siren or Serenity 🪔 I am of Light, because I have experienced and gained wisdom from my "dark". You too, can shine your way through your darkness 🌤  ------------------------- Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  Has there been a Member or Listener in the Cups Community that has really made a positive impact on your time here? Appreciate them by clicking the blue "Peer Appreciation Form" button 💙 ------------------------- 💌 3 Fun Facts About Me: Originally from the Caribbean Islands 🌴 my zodiac sign is Taurus ♉️ sun with a Cancer ♋️ moon and my personality type is INFJ-A 🌙✨️ ------------------------- In the Listener Community, my primary roles are: ✨️ Retired Adult Listener Chatroom Ambassador ✨️Active Mentor Leader for the Listener Coaching Team ✨️ Active Listener Verifier ✨️ Active Listener Quality Mentor ✨️ Active Listening Test Grader for AL 1 & 3 ✨️ Academy Mentor for the Content Development & Marketing Program (CDM)
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JDN04
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19, uk uni student. you can come to me with any topic i cover and there will be no judgement. give me a message if that sounds good to you! :)
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Rayraybeastboy24
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Hello my name is Ray. I am here to turn that frown upside down. Welcome to my page. It my job to figure out how to make you smile. I am 24 years old. ⚠️ I can be goofy at times, to make you 😃 smile. I love anything related to art, working out, exploring, traveling, dancing. Soon will be studying architecture.
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 ------------------------- My name is Ashraf and I am ready to listen and give help and effort to anyone I can help or be a friend. 💚
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HDrummer
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Masters student with a degree in Marketing. I'm a pretty up-beat guy. I really enjoy listening to people, talking to them, learning from them and doing my best to add value to them. I can treat difficult situations and delicate subjects with the upmost respect and professionalism. To anyone reading this, I hope you're having a great day and remember "The darkest of nights end with the morning sun".
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yourclosest
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AshBlossom27
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Hey there and welcome! Glad you found me on 7 Cups. I would love to assist in any way that I can, however, there are a few things to address:  - If what you wish to discuss is an issue related to sex or pleasure (or try to RP in any capacity) I am not the listener for you. My own relationship with sexual topics is complicated, as I am ace (asexual) and get very uncomfortable with anyone going into detail on those things. Please do not reach out just to tell me that my sexuality is not valid. Though, if you want to talk to me about sexuality, I am more than happy to listen!  -  There are subjects listed in which I have personal experience and am comfortable helping you with, however, there are also those I don't have the knowledge base to aid with or am uncomfortable speaking with (again, sexual topics and abuse). Please take those into consideration if you send me a personal request.  - If at any time you feel as though a different listener would be better, let me know and you are more than welcome to find another. I will not be offended, as not everyone connects with the first person they try to talk with. Understand that I will do the same if I feel I am not qualified or a situation arises that brings me discomfort. Thanks for the read! And, I hope we can help you out here! Ash (she/her)
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