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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

freshLight64
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Hi I'm a guy and from the United States, I'm glad you have found me on 7cups of tea, feel free to contact me when I'm online. Even when everything seems dark, there's always going to be a light called hope. "Sometimes we need to cry to let everything out, focus on other things to clear the mind and focus on other people to heal the heart" "From now on the rain will seem less, and things will smile upon you. A new stage begins; doors of tomorrow" "Always believe because you are truly are like an aurora, rare but at the same time unique that should always be shown" "Look up to the sky and reach beyond it to see the unknown and even find a shooting star and with all your heart wish everything you set out to do comes true" "Take a chance, take a chance and the path will clear, step over the horizon and know it was worth it" "I want to be beautiful, beautiful as the stars seen up above at night. Shine like them because deep within my heart I know I can be beautiful" "If by watching the stars can become shooting stars and the wishes from deep within would come true in an instant then my wish for you is to be yourself and be happy" "In this world, we often see and face the cruel nature of things while our compassion emerges like the sun behind the dark clouds" "One step at a time, I'll find my worth while knowing I can make it through this, crossing the ocean, climbing the mountain won't tire me" "You are like a butterfly trapped on a cocoon, waiting to emerge out of it to fly and show your colors and beauty" "You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to be special. Just be you and let everything unfold" "Your strength is the feelings you carry from deep within, your light is the will to continue" "Every step you take it leaves roses behind, within every action you show your light" "Pain teaches us the greatest lessons on life, it can break you or can make you stronger" "Sometimes others see what we don’t see in ourselves because of our insecurities" “At times we will mess up, but will you let it define you or rise above it” "There’s not a person you should be better than yourself" "You display toughness, but I can feel pain inside of you. The world may have many mysteries, but I feel you could have more" "Someday the stars may fall, meteors might impact the earth, but before it my time will come while I start to frequently knock on the door of destiny for my own call" "Don’t fall, don’t stay down even if things fall apart. Deep inside wishes of overcoming all of this, staying strong even against the strongest of winds or if the sky falls" "Your beauty is all around, it can’t be explained in words, I feel it in my soul, I see it with my own eyes each time" "You are perfect with mistakes and flaws, the world will soon rotate in your favor" "The night is made of dreams of escaping, opening the lock of this dark prison. The more I want it, the higher I want to fly…The higher I get the more freedom I will start to feel" “Your kindness and strength are able to move mountains, and reach the most darkest of places as a light to guide the way" "Believe in yourself, in the person you are because that’s the only way you can break his vicious cycle you created with your insecurities and fall outs" "My faith is my prayer to go forward, even while in pain and suffering. Wishful thinking would be no negative things in life, but without it then positive things won’t come out" "The bad moments don’t last, but the good moments last forever. I may have a mountain to climb, and my feet could hurt from walking, but I know in my heart I will always fight" "I face my fear, embrace my feelings while turning the flame inside of me. I’ll be able to fight with every ounce of energy and strength without giving up" If you ever feel sad or mad always look up to the sky and remember tomorrow will be a brand new day. There’s going to always be a light called hope in every turn. You’ll always live inside of me Through my eyes you’ll see the world Your strength will become my strength When I look to the sky I’ll smile knowing I’m not alone…  
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SheKnowsHope
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Please READ If I did not accept your personal or general request and message you, I am unavailable to chat. Please do not message me. Hello, my name is Crys and I'd love to help you. Remember the invisible staircase [https://ideas.ted.com/why-are-we-so-bad-at-predicting-what-will-happen-to-us-in-the-future/] in front of you. (Courtesy of T).  As a listener, we are trained in Active Listening, which is listening in a way that shows compassion and empathy. Listeners will ask you open ended questions to help guide the conversation. It is meant to be a supportive environment for you to grow and learn more about yourself. We are here to listen and support you in your time of need, thus advice will not be given.  Advice is really easy to give, but it can sometimes be wrong or even harmful. I don't have a full understanding of your life or world. Any advice I'd give you would be limited and potentially wrong. You are the expert on you. The best thing I can do for you is to help you figure out the path that makes the most sense to you. Thank you for your understanding.  If you are suicidal please go to crisischat.org [http://crisischat.org] or imalive.org [http://imalive.org] to speak with a trained professional.
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MoonlightPrimrose
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- 🌼 If you reach out to me while I am offline, please keep in mind that it will likely take 1-2 weeks for me to respond. Briefly introduce yourself and what you would like to talk about and let me know what days and times would generally work for you, so we can set up a time to chat as soon as possible 🌼 - ------------------------- Hey! Great that you found me here on 7cups. My screenname here is MoonlightPrimrose, but you can call me Louie or Lou if you want. My pronouns are they/them and he/him. I've been listening on and offline for more than 7 years now, I like to read, I like to be creative in many different ways with photography, drawing, painting, writing and playing DnD and I have a gentle spiritual self-care practice of Tarot, Yoga Asana, meditation and other grounding and connecting techniques. I am also quite passionate about social justice and try to learn and unlearn every day. I do my best to consider my own positioning as a white, upper-middle class neurodivergent disabled queer trans person in my listening work. I am very queer. I use a lot of different words and labels to describe myself, depending on people and situations in my life. Some of them are: trans*, non-binary, gay, transmasculine, greyromantic, or simply queer. Feeling alone, overwhelmed or sad is something I know, but I also know how much it helps to just talk to someone... It's not always a solution to every single problem, but it's often a relief to know that there are people out there who care for you and who know what you are going through. We are meant to support each other. We are not meant to fight through this life on our own. I've experienced struggles with bullying, school and family stress, anxiety, depression, coming out and other issues of queer (gender) identity myself and this might help you feel heard if we share these experiences. If you feel like we might be a good match: Just send me a message. As mentioned above it might take 1-2 weeks for me to respond, but we'll schedule a time to chat if I have capacity and see where it goes from there. The chats I schedule are up to 50 minutes long and my timezone is CET. If I have the capacity and feel like we match well I will offer follow-up chats towards the end of our first one. As you might have noticed: I'm from Germany and German is my native language. So if there are fellow Germans out there who want to talk, schreibt mir einfach, dann können wir natürlich auch Deutsch reden :) ------------------------- - Louie -
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BooksAndSmiles
L Helper 6 56
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Glad you are here!
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rainyDeer72
L Guru 8 1872
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Words are powerful, they dig their way in, they could send people where they should be, or could get them swallowed by hatred. I find my peace talking to you .. and i know as much as i believe i matter, that you do too. SO Smile .. and let's have a nice chat
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Raspberrycheesecake
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Currently not taking member chats, please go to Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to reach out to another listener! ★ Welcome to my profile - I am Rasp. I love cats, reading and listening to music. I know what it feels like to be alone and needing a non-judgemental ear to listen to you. I know that sometimes it is hard to take that step. But it's good that you decided to reach out! ★ Verified Adult-Teen Listener • Support Session Leader • Intern Graduate (with Honors) • Peer Support • Verified Listener Team • Global Mod • Internship Mentor • Adult/Teen Quality Mentor • Support Team Leader For Eating Disorders • Community Mentor Leader For Eating Disorders • Q and A Team • Doorkeeper • Teen Transiting Mentor ★ Self-Harm Recovery (Adults) - Monday's at 3:15PM EDT • Eating Disorders (Adults) - Friday at 6PM EDT ★ Listeners - Find me in the LSR. Members - Feel free to message me when I am offline, my messages are a safe place for you!
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Suitcase33
L Beginner 7 34
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Happy to see you on 7Cups! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
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Espejo
L Explorer 3 328
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🌊 Hola, I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups 🌺 I'm a trained active listener and a believer of talking and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, and actions as a form of therapy ☀️ Everyone needs someone to talk to and people come to 7 Cups because they want something to be different in their lives. They may want to change a personal situation, solve a particular problem, or simply bring a healthier balance to their lives 🐈 I'm here to listen, talk, and help you better understand yourself. If I'm online, reach out to chat. If not, send me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can. Talk to you soon 🐉 Healing energy is the energy of love. Learn to let it flow thru you. ✨
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YouMeanToMe30
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Hi ! Call me  You or anything you prefer. :)   I'm a verified active listener on 7cups, would be more than happy to be there for you.  My ID name means that I care a lot about you and you mean to me a lot !    Feel free to message me ! I'm here to help !   Language: English / Farsi (Persian)    
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GentleAngel10
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Hello there. Life gets difficult at times, I say this because I know. I’ve been through a lot of hardships myself, barely surviving each day. But I’ve learnt to take life one day at a time, atleast that’s how I survive. I’m a doctor, with a special interest in psychiatry, but that’s not why I’m here. I’m here because like you, I also felt emotions that I couldn’t just explain to anyone around me. And it helped just talking and ranting, even if it was to a complete stranger. So, if you’re in need to just vent out whatever it is you’re feeling, I’m here. And I’ll try my best to help. Cheers!! 🌸
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ArwaS
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Heyyy I'm Arwa, an old bean with a teen soul. My 7 cups Journey in Hashtags :3 <3 #Ottawa #TheAteam #Rabbits #GamigSquad #Tilysm #Birbles #Suiris #zerrari  #HolyHalos #Carrots4Days #MajsCasheek #CerealAndBurntBread #BugLeftTheRug #BugOnTheLoose #CCC(c) #ArnoldTump #HotkeySpam #BeetSace2k16 #SledCrawl #Saus #LlamaPenguinAndaLlama #Yarwona #Yenwa #NootNoot #Pawsftw #FeedTheFeed #SpadesIsTheBaestSenpai #TheBTeam #MonthlyPoker  FOXTABULOUSTIC Listenereos <3 @Pray4theheartless Disney Princess blue belle, You beautiful piece of bread have taught me so much and I’m lucky to have met you <3 @Amelia lia lia you have taught me so much and I continue to learn from you everytime we talk <3 You have been a silver lining in my listener journey and for that, I can’t thank you enough <3 @Amy pawbuddyy now known as pawteenie my paw punner <3I love how we just add paw to everything <3 You are one person I will always admire <3 @Yendi Stuart My minion dressed as a boov in a yeti costume <3 Where would I be without you <3 @Buginarug deserves a hug for being the best listener anyone can ask for <3 You helped me when I needed someone and for that, I can’t thank you enough buggy <3 @Cielxblu carrot you are what keeps me rooted you helped me branch out and become the person I am now <3 also the chad <3 @Diandra *dialing the ellama* <3 So proud of my daughter? For all the progress you’ve made and continue to make <3 Keep it up dia you’re shooting for the stars <3 @Glue priitany spears you are what keeps us all stuck together <3 You have such an interesting mindset and the most beautiful poetic way of talking <3 @AnyaS Twinna *dances around* <3 You are sweeter than chocolate caramel mousse <3 @Batmanwaffle santawafflaus <3 You are the spreader of joy and happiness <3     
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trulyhereforyou
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Hello there! I'm a recent graduate from vet college, but let's be real, there's nothing interesting about me. What really matters is you and what's on your mind. Whether it's something big or small, I'm here to lend an ear and offer support however I can 🙃 No matter what's weighing on your mind, know that your feelings are valid and deserving of attention. I genuinely enjoy connecting with each and every one of you. So go ahead and reach out to me. I'm here with an open heart and a listening ear, ready to walk alongside you through whatever you're facing 🙂 Looking forward to hearing from you!
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