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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

KatieTheWingedOne
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Hello :) ​​​​ I'm kate, glad to meet you!  Long-Term inactive. This profile is for record of my work and impact only.  Please reach out :) I will get back to you as soon as possible. My response time is under 60 hours, chats typically last between {30 minutes and 2 hours} depending on support required, when chatting with me there won't be a time cap, just talking until you hopefully feel that little bit better <3 Please read through my profile before reaching out to me :) 💙No Longer Accepting Member Requests 💙 ​​​​​​  ⬇️ Availability:  I am typically available at inconsistent times from Monday-Sunday (I will not however schedule chats for Sunday if other days are available) -💙 I greatly value feedback, please consider leaving a review so I can reflect on our experience💙- Thank you for considering me to support you :)  In my time I have experienced my fair share of issues and Hurts, having lived experience in: -tough breakups -relationship stress -family stress -LGBTQ+ issues and relations -general anxiety -social anxiety -depression -self-esteem -self-worth troubles -religious trauma If you feel most comfortable talking to someone with direct experience about what you are facing those are my experiences.  But I am capable of talking about almost every topic, applying those experiences and lessons to better understand you. As your situation is completely unique I appreciate every chat is a new experience, I'd be very glad to listen to you vent, provide support or simply keep a conversation☺️. Although I am capable of all topics I do not take chats with the *main focus* of the conversation being on -Disordered eating -Drug addiction  -Alcohol addiction  -Sexual health problems   ​​-My listening style is taking an active role when listening; so will ask questions, give in-depth responses, and reflect on your messages during our conversation.  ☺️However like a pair of shoes or a good outfit.... You won't always find the perfect match on your first try feel free to keep searching! ☺️ Find more lovely listeners here: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseBrowseListeners Green status: I am online and taking requests /chats, please message me if you find me to be a good match, I'm 100% here for you! I am active Orange status: I am online but NOT actively taking requests or chats (although I will take up chats on this colour, feel free to message and I will hopefully get back to you soon) I am most likely in forums or online in some way!  Red status:  There's a chance I'm online (but I'm likely not) but this means I am NOT replying or taking chats at all. Feel free to message and I'll answer as soon as I'm back online :). I am not active.  --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Some loving reminders ( ˘ ³˘)♥ ​​-​​​♡ You deserve respect and care, feeling alone or hurt can be such a painful thing, regardless of where you are in life you deserve respect and appreciation. -♡ You are capable and wonderful, insecurity and experiences can make you forget what you're truly able to do. Recognise your abilities :) -♡ You deserve great things. Don't let negative thoughts or people overwhelm you, it can be difficult to believe but you deserve a lot from this life. -♡ You can get better! sometimes when you've felt down or hurt for so long it feels like recovery is impossible. But healing is completely possible, and so many people are here for you   -♡ Take care of yourself -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I will try my best to be here for you, but I may be busy! Unfortunately, cups also has technical issues with receiving messages, if I do not reply do not feel afraid to contact me again until I do, Thanks for understanding :) For listeners :                    As a fellow listener, I am compassionate about creating a warm welcoming community between both members and listeners alike. I like welcoming new listeners and will always be up to talk about listener chats with you all (I'm peer support, please feel free to message me after a hard chat I'm here for you 🤗)     ~ 💙My listener twin is BrightHeart116//love you MishiS💙 ~           To every beautiful listener, I've had the good fortune to meet, thank you! I hope you realise not only how much you matter to me but how much you truly enrich this community and life too!            To every wonderful member, I've come across along my journey, never forget your worth and how splendid you are to know!  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Current Roles:             - I am a trained active listener (I regularly recap training and am always searching for the best ways to support people).          - I am a verified listener (meaning I passed a mock chat to ensure quality).             -I am a peer support (which means after a difficult chat you ~listeners~ can come and talk to me for support or to be led in the right direction).          - I host sharing circles every Tuesday at 3 pm EST/ 8pm GMT. feel free to come alone :) I have hosted for over two years now! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Previous roles :               - I was both a host at one point in time, and co-host of the listener sharing circle (every Sunday from 8am - 9am EST // with a combined time of hosting being five months)                - I was an assigned host for the healthy habits sessions before they got discontinued (I hosted every Tuesday since I first joined till the sessions merged with sharing circles, hosting for 9 months)       - At one point I also hosted friendship room weekly sessions mine was self-care Saturday! (I hosted every Saturday and helped make the newest version of the script :0)     - I was a dedicated member of the LGBTQ+/MOGII forum community being forum support, having this responsibility for 8 months ​    -I was a forum supporter for the positivity and gratitude (P&G) community: meaning I posted regularly and support this community in forums. I still support this forum!   - I was also a forum supporter for the needs reply team, meaning I dedicated my time to helping reduce the needs reply section of forums :) - I was a part of project lightship (so actively spread the word of 7cups and support externally too!) You can find my profile here! : @katie7cups / KatieTheRockOne7cups  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ​​💫To all individuals I've come to accept the loss of, know I'll forever mourn you, You will remain eternal in my heart and the hearts of those who cared💫 ☺️💙☺️Have a lovely day all 💙
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MonicaQu
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Hola soy Monica una oyente aqui para apoyarle. Puede hablar sobre de lo que esta en su mente.  Hello, I'm MonicaQu a listener glad that you came across my profile and more than welcome to message me.  I am able to talk to teens as I teach 15 and 16 years old. Also I can talk about most topics with adults about  anxiety, relationship problems, school problems just to name a few. I am able to talk about sex related topics but with not too much information. All other topics I'm fine with such as chats on Bipolar, depression and issues to do with Weight Management and Eating Disorders as I have family members who deal with these. You can message me offline to make an appointment . I'm free most weekends during the day or night and sometimes around 5pm until 6pm on Monday to Thursday. Or else you can send me daily messages telling me about your days. In my chats, I usually can talk for 40 minutes then continue another day and talk to only one person at a time. Listening to you, means a lot as I know some things you can't go to a friend or family member that it is easier to do where you are anonymous.  In my chats, you can expect a non-judgemental place and feel like you are talking to a friend.  I can take chats in English or Spanish.   For listeners,  I am a teen/adult listener and have been a member since 2014 so you can come to me for any problems or if you want to refer a chat you can tell them my username.  You can find me in Listener Support Room, or High School Room for teens. I am also part of the Spanish Speaking group so if you come across a Spanish speaker or you are a Spanish speaker yourself, send me a message. :)   Some cool information about me : I'm an Anthropologist and study Spanish at university. I have been in Ecuador for 3 and a half years now. I'm originally from New Zealand.  I have been involved in a variety of projects like the : Red Cross, Refugee Service and I am a yellow ambassador where students at my school could come to me to talk a bit like 7cups but in real life.  I really like coffee and like to use Stumbleupon as it interests me to see what random page I come across. I also like to destress by going to rumba (dancing latin rhythms at the gym)  
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Helper127
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Here to listen and provide support with no judgment 💚💛💙 I usually host in the sharing circle on Wednesdays and Fridays during the 8pm Eastern time slot. (Currently on a self-care break from hosting my regular schedule but still hosting when I'm able.) Please note: A green circle near my profile picture means I am available to chat. An orange circle means I am unavailable to accept new chats because I am already chatting at capacity. A red circle means I am offline or unavailable to chat. Orange or red means I will TRY to reply when possible IF I am able to, as my schedule allows. Thank you. I am currently not able to accept scheduled or long-term chats, as I am at capacity, but I can occasionally take on an unscheduled chat if free time opens up. Sending support to everyone 💙💛
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mamtasha22
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Introduction Hey! Welcome to my bio I am glad you decided to check my profile out <3 I am mamtasha22 I have been a listener here since January 31st <3I am commonly known here for having 12 cats and a turtle <3 I have had my fair shares of ups and downs and we all need someone to be there for us while we are going through a rough patch and I am here to be that someone for you <3 Read on to see if I am the listener for you if not feel free to browse listeners here <3 https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/" class="btn btn-primary">Browse listeners Due to schools reopening and a busy schedule I will only be taking booked chats <3 You are free to leave me messages outside of scheduled chats however, I will not be able to respond in a timely manner <3 You can book me here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd8-ZZtiBzFqDbwQ9LANiXzK2nq4f4BLFC-KyWBaVuE0QT-6g/viewform    [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd8-ZZtiBzFqDbwQ9LANiXzK2nq4f4BLFC-KyWBaVuE0QT-6g/viewform] My listener friends Kieran [https://www.7cups.com/@kieran000] Dylan [https://www.7cups.com/@Dylanhereforyou] Liev [https://www.7cups.com/@shiningSky3745] Lexi [https://www.7cups.com/@SunnyLexi] LU [https://www.7cups.com/@whenitsdarklookforstars] Lueur [https://www.7cups.com/@lueurspace] Ley MJ Green My triggers are: Caps Calling me ma’am, sir, and if  you haven’t known me for long sweetheart, darling, love, hun, honey, etc My phobias Acrophobia  Cynophobia Claustrophobia Atelophobia Topics I am not comfortable with Relationship advice Self-harm chats Religious chats Sexual topics My roles Community mentor Leader  Sharing circle host Listener sharing circle host Support room 24/7 project host Teen discussion host Listener discussion host Listener verifiers team Care team guide Care team buddy Care team project agent  Moderator  Peer support Chat support Translations project Doorkeeper Forum supporter Teen community star Anonymous Evaluations team
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Dandelion2405
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Currently On Break Hello lovely people! Glad you found me on cups :) I am currently on break (welp uni is stressful). Please reach out to other amazing listeners here!  To all the wonderful people reading this: You are strong. You are loved. I know you are having a hard time. You have it in you to get through this!  If our conversation is therapeutic to you, or even just makes you feel lighter in general, I'd be the happiest! Please note that I do not appreciate any inappropriate chats or behavior :)  I co-host Sharing Circles three times a week. They are amazing. If you would like to know more about them, just send me a message.  A little about me: You can call me Dan/Dande/Lion whichever you are comfortable with. My pronouns are she/her. I love books, music, anime, kpop and dogs. I like to paint, sing and play instruments sometimes! <3  I look forward to talking to you! 
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