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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

CJHere2Help
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Hello! My name is CJ, I'm a 5th-year psychology student on my way to completing a doctorate in clinical psychology. I became a listener on 7 Cups back in 2016 when I was in high school; it has always been my goal to help as many people as I can live happy lives. Everyone has struggles that they go through, and those struggles can be overwhelming. No matter how big or how small, I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to. I hope all of those who read this are having a good day, and if not, feel free to reach out 💜 Here's some stuff I've been I've personally gone through mentally in case you are looking for someone with similar experiences: Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), agoraphobia, depression, anxiety, panic disorder, and dyslexia. Please read the following before messaging: I know that you may only get a limited amount of chat requests per day on here. If you chat request me, you can message me whenever you need to and I promise I will try to respond as soon as I can. I am a full-time student, so I apologize if I take a bit to respond. I tend to be active mostly in the afternoon/evening and will also most likely be asleep/inactive between 10pm and 10am EST Thank you for reading and I look forward to talking to you 💜
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sweetmikayla
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Some years ago, I was in a very dark place. I wish I had someone to talk to, at least so that I could feel less lonely in this world. I've overcome a lot of struggles completely alone, but now I'm here to be the help I've never had. Everyone should use some help fighting their struggles, and that's why I'm here: I want to help you by listening to you and giving you all the support I can give. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to contact. Glad you are here! Please don't ask me for sex chats, my personal phone number or social media profiles. I've been asked too many times and I always refused because of some past experience, so I'd rather you didn't ask. Thank you.
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cherryblossom177
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Hello!⭐️ I’m here to listen and support. No judgement, just an open heart. reach out anytime💬.
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bouncyMusic133
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Hello, I am BouncyMusic133. You can call me Bouncy or Music. In a world that often rushes by, I have chosen to stand still--to be a listener. I recognize that feelings are intricate landscapes, sometimes overwhelming and difficult to navigate. On those challenging days, we all yearn for someone who genuinely listens. I am here for you.  I understand that each person's journey is unique, shaped by experiences that merit acknowledgment and understanding. My goal is to provide a space where your voice is heard, where your emotions find expression without judgment. While I respect your curiosity about me, my primary objective is to ensure you are listened to. I believe that through the art of listening, we can forge connections that transcend the surface, creating a profound understanding of each other's humanity. So, let's embark on this journey together. Your story, your emotions, and your experiences matter. I am here to listen, without judgment, and with the utmost respect for the unique narrative you bring to the conversation. Here are some things about me: 1. I respect boundaries and I expect you to respect mine as well. I know that it is important for some members to know their listeners before sharing. Everything you need to know about me is here. My goal here is to be able to provide you with a safe space to share and listen to you. To best utilize our hour together, I do not want to take any of our time to focus on me, I am here for you.  2. 1:1 requests. Currently, I do not take scheduled 1:1 chats due to my personal, work, and school schedules. I do not want to make a commitment that I cannot keep. You can leave a message and if I am available, I will message you back. It is advised that you not wait on me and will get a faster response from another listener at 7cups.com/BrowseListeners.  Here are some quotes: "Healing is an art. It takes time, it takes practice. It takes love." - Maza Dohta "The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world." - Marianne Williamson "Perhaps they are not stars but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy." - Eskimo Proverb "Recovery is an acceptance that your life is in shambles and you have to change it." - Jamie Lee Curtis "It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop." - Confucius "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." - Oscar Wilde "Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle." - Christian D. Larson
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UnderstandingMatrix
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On vacation 22-april till 12-may May be unavailable / slow to respond during this time ------------------------- I'm Dutch and a 5th year Uni student. Please be honest and straightforward. If I'm not helping you, don't shy away from telling me. :) "The things that matter most in life are typically not easy" - ? "While it is always best to believe in one's self, a little help from others can be a great blessing." - Uncle Iroh, ATLA What my status means: OFFLINE I am not online, or otherwise unavailable. I may show up in a room, but know that I really don't have time. Feel free to leave a message though if we already have a chat, I will reply when i can :) BUSY I am not available to take on new members. If we have a chat going, I will respond. I, however, cannot guarantee staying online for a long period. ONLINE I am online, ready to take on new members and ready to have long form chats :D ------------------------- For those that left reviews: thank you very much!   
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Sunrise110
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* Currently not taking new chats * Hello and welcome! I'm a trained verified listener and I like to help by listening & supporting people struggling with an issue. If I'm online feel free to message me, If I'm offline then send a message and we can set up a time to connect. 
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Hamstermum
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I'm a teacher and educator with an interest in the therapeutic role of creativity. Being human just makes me want to help, no matter what you need to talk about.  A lot of my work includes listening, so 7 Cups is a great place to practice and improve this. I listen to adults and promise to be an empathetic and patient listener (and not judge!) if you come to chat to me. I also take on long term listening, so if you need support over a period of time I can help there too. My hours vary, but at the moment I can often be found online on Friday / Saturday evenings. I am in the UK, so remember I work on GMT / BST 😁 I also rescue hamsters - hence my ID on here - and train them to be therapy animals.  🐹
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GreatestClassiest
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As Salamu Alaikum  The weird listening wizard. Made In Bangladesh And So Easy To Understand, I am An Asian. Don't Be A Racist Claiming Asians Aren't Good In Listening. Serving This Ground Since 2016. I Claim Myself The Greatest And Classiest Because I Have Never Taken a Break From This Ground Since I Entered. Now Easy To Understand Because Other Listeners Here Who Show Too Much Excitement And Passion For Listening Often Break Their Own Mind And Hide Themselves Suddenly. I Can't Be That Careless Like Others, So That's My Biggest Point To Claim Myself The Greatest And Classiest of 7 Cups. Consistency Matters Most When The Task Is Voluntary. I Believe Taking A Break And Hiding From Those Who Seek Help Is Cowardice.  People Often Call Me A Narcissist, But I'll Say To Be A Narcissist, It Needs Some Unique Ability To Define Your Statement, And I Have That. And Lastly, Don't Waste My Time By Showing a Lack Of Consistency. I Trade Modesty, So Be Modest. Also, I'm A Muslim, So Choose Those Topics That Suits A Muslim Because It's Fun To Kick Someone When He Selects A Wrong Topic To Share With Me. 
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BlueSkies1021
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NOTE: Members --- Feel free to leave messages even when my status bubble is orange (meaning busy) or red (meaning inactive)! I will respond when I can, as soon as possible! Please don't think I forgot about you or ignored you if I don't respond right away. I reply to every message that comes in my inbox whenever I have the chance to!!! :) But in case I am unable to get to you right away and you urgently need help, please Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or use a Self Help Guide [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php] with these blue links here! And as for my fellow listeners --- If you need resources or help with chatting, please see this link [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuides_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/] for the master list of listener resources. *************************************************************************** I am a member of the VERIFIER'S TEAM [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/JointheListenerVerifiersTeam_46938/], so fellow listeners --- if you would like to request a mock chat to become Verified, please read this post [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] thoroughly, check if you meet all the requirements, and message me to schedule a mock chat to try to get recognized for your high-quality active listening and get yourselves that blue Verified check bubble and badge! *************************************************************************** Hello everyone! I am a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] here at 7 Cups! My name is Blue, pronouns she/her! (I also like the name Sky; you guys can pick which one you call me.) :D I am a person with a deep compassion and understanding for people and I will not be judgmental towards you for any of your issues. I love listening to people and check in with this site every day, so I will do my best to respond to your messages as quickly as I can. During the weekdays I might be a bit slow to respond, though, because I'm still in school and get overloaded with work a lot. But really, don't feel guilty venting to me—I WANT to be here! :) I have a lot of experience with mental health and listening to people about their struggles, although if your problems are outside of my ability to help (suicide, self harm, sexual harassment/assault, substance abuse, drug addiction, domestic violence, trauma from war, injuries, diseases, etc.), please seek professional help [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/] or paid therapy [https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/?ob=1] with the resources in these links, as I am not trained or equipped to handle these things as a 17-year-old kid. As much as I would really, truly love to be here for all you guys through anything, I really can't do anything about threats to your safety. Those things should be referred to the authorities or a specialist. But otherwise, I am here for everyone, regardless of race, gender, religion, sexuality, relationship status, familial situation, etc. and feel free to talk to me like you would close friend. You deserve help, love, appreciation, and validation; I will do everything in my power to provide you with support! :) *************************************************************************** A bit about me: My birthday is October 21st (yay Libras!), my personality type is INFJ, and I was born in the Year of the Dog (2006)! My favorite color is blue (you probably guessed, haha), my favorite seasons are fall and summer, and my favorite food is Hawaiian Poké bowl. I'm Chinese-American, proud to be so, and have a lot of experience with managing and appreciating cultural identity. I think I'm somewhere on the ace spectrum [https://asexuality.org/] (probably demisexual and demiromantic), but I don't really care about labels that much, so you can just call me "ace" or "queer" or whatever; I just want to be myself. :) Music is my favorite thing, like, ever; I play flute, viola, sing in a choir, am in a marching band, and love musical theater. I love reading books, particularly YA fantasy, sci-fi, realistic fiction, and LGBTQ+ stories. My top 4...well, technically 5...favorite books are "You've Reached Sam" [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/53086843-you-ve-reached-sam] by Dustin Thao, "They Both Die At The End" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/33385229-they-both-die-at-the-end?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=fst8Sn2mzF&rank=1] by Adam Silvera, "These Violent Delights" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50892212-these-violent-delights] (and its sequel, "Our Violent Ends" [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/44084762]) by my literal queen Chloe Gong, and "Loveless" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42115981-loveless?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=2kKj6M3VXm&rank=1] by Alice Oseman, which I HIGHLY recommend to everyone because they are just so meaningful and explore human connections so deeply. I write my own stories and draw sometimes, although they really aren't that great at all, haha. When I graduate high school, I want to go to medical school (hopefully, haha) to become a reproductive endocrinologist so I can help families! :) I'm also a huge fan of Marvel, My Hero Academia, Lord of the Rings, Top Gun, Taylor Swift, The Piano Guys, Alan Walker, and '80s / '90s Chinese songs (I get that from my amazing mom, haha)! :D *************************************************************************** APPRECIATE A PERSON ON 7 CUPS WHO HAS GIVEN YOU A GOOD EXPERIENCE HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform]! <3 *************************************************************************** MY BEST FRIENDS ON 7 CUPS OF TEA WHO I LOVE AND APPRECIATE WITH ALL MY HEART: @kosikima -- truly a legit angel sent from heaven, so understanding and warm-hearted @mushro0m -- a friend that's such a joy to talk to, always accepting and there for me @amiableBunny4016 -- hardworking and selfless, overcomes obstacles like a warrior @inventiveMango9097 -- so strong and resilient, finds happiness even when it's dark @FaithfulZareia [https://www.7cups.com/@FaithfulZareia] -- the best, sweetest listener I know, always cheers me up when I'm down
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Sheik64
L Helper 10 110
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We all walk different paths, but our commonalities are endless. We can all sometimes have a difficult time in life. I'm here to listen and to try to help as much as I can. I won't give advice, however, I'm here to go through it with you and support you 100% I am here to listen to you. Never feel like you are alone. <3
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tanish0007
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Hey there! I am studying medicine though i am not allowed to give medical advice as this is against 7 cups rules. Feel free to text me anytime. I will try my best to help you in any possible way.
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TangerineIsAwesome
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Hello :)  I will try my best to create a safe space you can talk to. If you need someone to listen, I'm here. My personality introverted, calm, quiet,  Topics I can best support   teenage issues, student life, anxiety, panic attack, general mental health Topics I cannot support   Any sexual issues, suicide/self harm related, drug/alcohol abuse General availability KST 7pm-10pm 
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