I feel lost
I've been married for 34 years . My husband and I were never conversatist. I tried, but he just wouldn't talk to me . We are not in a good place right now. We have 2 adult kids . No matter the age they still hurt for what they see . I need help .
@Josienme
This is really tough to go through. Especially when you have so much history together. Maybe it is time to try to sit down and really talk about what is happening. Together, maybe you can figure out the next steps to get things back on track.
Hello there!
My parents and I went through this. My parents have poor communication skills and they used to argue all of the time. Often times getting me the child and my siblings involved.
My parents have been married for a similar amount of time (probably five years less or so).
I think they went to marriage counseling and it made a world of difference. They used to argue all of the time. They communicate much better now. And because they communicate better they respect each other more and compromise more. It’s so exciting for me as the child to see such progress in their relationship.
I would recommend marriage counseling. The only way through it is to work on it. And if you love your partner you will work on it and not give up.
Do what makes you happy!
