It will pass
Hi there everyone. Yep.the title of this page is what I constantly remind myself that whatever is happening will pass. If I don't, that black hole gets deep very fast. I have to constantly remember that tomorrow is a new day. If I don't, I might not reach it. Just a little info about me and my situation. I'm 63, 22 days into recovery for hip replacement. Physically healing slow with lots of burning. Mentally I'm very depressed but that seems to be my life the last 15yrs. Husband is abusive. Still ask why he married me other than to have a someone he could mentally mistreat. He really isn't a caretaker type personality and doesn't respond well to the word sick nor being around sick. Have to admit I don't understand why suddenly he is halfway trying. Anyways my future holds another hip replacement. I think I'm lonely now. My imagination says it's going to get worse. So I'm here to reach out for real people to talk to even if it's to only give the time of day. Thanks for listening.
@bubbleLand1090
That does sound like a lot to deal with and then on top of that the prospect of having to go through it again. Is the secondary surgery on the same hip or for the other hip?
( Oh, by the way it's 11:21 AM here 
... just kidding 
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@bubbleLand1090
Hi there! so glad that you are here. I know what it feels like to not have the support and understanding from our husbands. Totally relate. I bet that was painful? and now to know that you are facing another surgery wow.
I am ScarletPear1945 and it is good to meet you. Here at 7cups, you will find support and friends. There are lots of areas to explore and 24/7 chatrooms that you can get. support 24/7 just click the chat button and you can get a one-on-one chat or join in a group chat.
Looking to see you around in the community. Keep looking up