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Never had children and it's too late now

User Profile: HeartFan
HeartFan December 10th, 2021

I am married and never had children. Sometimes I feel like my ADHD is why we never had children.


If I were younger and knew what I know now, I would not be perfect but I think I would be an appropriate father.

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User Profile: audienta
audienta December 10th, 2021

@HeartFan

Hey Heart

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

I'm sorry to hear that you're regretting not having children. Like you've said, you didn't know back then what you know now. You did as good as you could with the knowledge that you had at the given time. That's all we can do... And it's okay to grief now. You're not alone in this situation. If you want to talk, you can always join a Group Support Chat or connect with one of our amazing listeners.

Take care

audienta

December 10th, 2021

@HeartFan

Hello! What’s stopping you now? If you want a child, have one. Adopt one.

Be in a relationship and have one!

This life is what we make of it.


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December 10th, 2021

Oops, my bad, I can see in your post you said you are married. I correct what I said above and talk to your significant other about pursuing being a father by either having a child or adopting a child.


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User Profile: Dmannshow49male
Dmannshow49male December 26th, 2022

Yes you would. But don’t go regretting anything. You are you for a reason. Simple as that.