I have a slow brain.
Today I was looking at this website. I've been on this site for months, and all of a sudden it is like I understand something that I didn't before. I get frustrated by how long it takes me to understand things, and people.
@tryingtosurvive2024
I am not sure what you meant (any examples, please? 😊), but I've always admired and been even a little bit envious about people who can get it all slow. Not like my thoughts flying into some various directions when I try to read a book, like paying the bills or checking some definitions in the dictionary.
I believe it is hard to fully understand another person in general, as long as we are not them. In my case, for example, it took me a while realising how lousy friend I've been for not replying someone's Christmas wishes, even if that was not deliberately, but having some serious personal issues at that time and just forgetting...