I actually need help in my life pls
i have adhd and hyperactive I’m 18 years old I’m a sweet nice girl I make friends with anyone easily people see me more like innocent sweet childish immature dumb blonde all that I might me not like them but here’s what been going on with me lately I don’t have a close friend or bff I have alotttt of friends like they could me over 1000+ a lot a lot might be even more but the thing is last year I met girls we got close fast and in July we went to the US together I was 17 ,3 of them 18 and one 16 okay we got really close part of me start to show up I never knew I had this personality I got really emotional and cry about everything like I got so sensitive without any clear reason and they hated that and i usually think people don’t really understand me so I talk not about myself and try to be the center of everything but I just want to make things clear like literally all I talk about is oh I don’t like that food but I like this I just want to be clear and sometimes I talk about my feelings and what happened in life so they start to ignore me since January and I hated that and when I’m loud they would tell me to keep it down but when one of them being loud they would laugh about it they hate that I’m hyperactive or adhd but when one of them fake it it’s funny and cute so I’m actually struggling with it why everytime I think I’m gonna finally have best friend they always gonna think I’m too childish to them and drama and want attention but they literally don’t let me talk any more they want to talk about boys or a girl they hate I also want to join them and all that when I talked to them they said in dramatic and I always want to be the center of the attention and I always talk about myself I can’t help it I’m not doing it on purpose I think everyone don’t understand me but literally people always hate when I talk about what napped to me or something else like you want me to talk about someone else’s life ? Idk why people hate that in me i don’t understand they mentioned aslo that I cut them I understand if they dislike it but i usually apologize when I do it bc when I wait for them to finish they would start a new conversation and they start to hang out without me and create another group chat without me and on my birthday they just said”happy birthday love you so much “ on my graduation only two of them said congratulations to me I would’ve done everytging to them and I actually love them so much I don’t understand pls help me
@Yasmin0991 I'm so sorry you're in that situation. I can relate pretty heavily to a lot of the stuff in this post, so you're not alone. If you ever want to chat about anything, feel free to message me!
Yes Pla i actually need to talk to someone who would understand
No problem! Listeners can’t reach out directly to members, but you can click on my profile and there should be a Message button
I couldn’t find the message button
Alright, in that case, the Chat section should have a Browse Listeners button where you can find my profile and send a chat request to me - sorry, I don’t have a member account so I’m still figuring some of this out
Or if that also doesn’t work, you can just make a general chat request and I’ll accept it when I see it
I want and could lend you an ear or whatever it is you might need.
I want and could lend you an ear or whatever it is you might need.
Looks like we have a lot in common im a 22 year old blonde girl who has trouble making friends but im always super friendly which helps me make friends but I can’t seem to keep many which makes me upset I always make friends and we get close pretty fast then they ignore me but I guess I just wanted to make you feel validated and understood because I’m right there with you :)
If they are treating you like that they aren’t real friends but sometimes it might just be because they don’t understand what adhd is but there will be time to find your true friends