My ADHD struggles
ADHD is something I have. Some people like to call it a learning disability, others say it's not real, I don't understand why they do though.
ADHD has made it hard to focus, and I think it's a part of my anger issues- People wouldn't hang out with me because I was angry a lot. I'd get looks from others. My teachers say my writing speed shows how fast I think, but I have to write slowly or they can't read it.
ADHD meds are the only reason I can focus enough to get my work done so I can pass 8th grade- one of my teachers said I was dumb because I never got my work done. I told them I couldn't focus because if adhd. I had to explain what it was. She demanded for me to be put in special needs classes because she said "I had a learning disability" even though it's not really that. I have no major disability, nor any learning disabilities.
@AngelisnotAOk This sounds super frustrating. I think it can be quite easy for people to invalidate something that they simply don't understand, or can't relate to. Very upsetting that one of your teachers called you "dumb", what a terrible thing to say to anyone! Her not understanding when you were trying to explain it, and denying you help, is completely unfair to you. It sounds like some of your other teachers are impressed with how fast you think though, do you feel more confident or see more of your strengths in their classes?
Definitely, it's better to be happy, confidence is key
@AngelisnotAOk
Hi, dear! Sorry you had to hear that, sadly, many are not prepared to deal with us people with ADHD. You're definetely not dumb, not being able to focus has nothing to do with intelligence. If it is possible, perhaps you could ask your doctor to write a letter to your teacher, explaining them the disorder and how it affects you, so they don't invalidate you again.
