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Society has decided that I am a loser.

User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 December 19th, 2024

Everything seems to hinge on my disability.  Why am I not liked by others?  Why can't I get out more?  Why am I working the job I am?  It all seems to point back to my learning disability and what it does to me.  Causes emotions that cascades into depression.  Last night I was at work, and picked up a sharpie marker and wrote on my arm.  "Loser".

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User Profile: calmMango9611
calmMango9611 December 19th, 2024

@tryingtosurvive2024 You are not a loser, my friend. You truly are not.

User Profile: AdaMae
AdaMae December 20th, 2024

No one is a loser (well except for bullies, but you’re not a bully, are you?) ADHD is a real struggle, but it doesn’t have to be who you are. You are who you say you are ❤️

User Profile: 77criss
77criss December 22nd, 2024

@tratandodesobrevivir2024

tengo una condición muy distinta a lo tuyo.

no importa donde esté nadie quiere estar conmigo , estoy ya tan cansado de sentir como siento  .el miércoles me subí al segundo piso del centro comercial y desde ese lugar mire  tantas vidas que podrían haber tenido.  Pero no paso .     

Desde Lima te digo que  también me siento un perdedor

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User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 OP December 22nd, 2024
@77criss  I hope we both find healing.
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User Profile: naturalbeauty
naturalbeauty December 28th, 2024

Hi. I understand how you feel completely. I’m the same way I just recently in the past year was officially diagnosed with ADHD but I struggled with the signs of it for years. People in my family younger and older always seemed to achieve there goals easier then me and I thought I was stupid. Even now I’m not in the career that I want to be in but being diagnosed helped me see that it is a disability but it gives me hope because now I have a name for it and have solutions to fix it. You are definitely not a loser so please don’t think that of yourself. I had to stop speaking negative about my situation and start looking at the brighter side of it. It is something that can be helped and that I’m not alone in this fight. I hope this helped keep fighting and you will succeed don’t worry.

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User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 OP December 29th, 2024

@naturalbeauty  thank you for sharing, and thank you for your encouragement.  I wish you the best on your life's journey.  😄

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