SOS
im 20 years old soon be 21 and i feel like i should have my life together right now and im currently in school but have been going through soooooo much stress these past few 2 years including past issues but, my biggest downfall is that i procrastinate a lotttt but i have so much on my mind especially because i want to change my major to social media marketing because i love fashion and designing and i want to be a fashion influencer and have a clothing business but then i also like painting, drawings, cooking, and making music. thats a lot and i cant just choose one.
where i’m at/at the moment is wanting to start fresh. but im scared because i don’t want to be a disappointment. so now im also in a space where idk what to do… i hope im not the only one :( sos
im currently overwhelmed and overthinking about this new job position, its for something ive never done. Yes i know that change is good, but im very scared. What if i mess up, what if im not perfect especially because this job was given to me by a family member, it puts so much stress on me especially when it’s something i don’t truly like. and i know i should be thankful because not everyone has this opportunity. I feel like crying in the shower because i don’t want to look co like the screw up that can’t do anything and i never want that to be my label. I know the only thing holding me back is myself— it feels like im losing. idk what would help because words of encouragement isn’t working how i thought it would— this feels different…
You are not alone, feeling like a disappointment is something no one should go through and I'm here to talk if you need someone to listen, you should always go for your dreams and reach up to the sky, it's not easy but it's something that makes you happy.
I’m 26 and I can assure you that you’re at the perfect age for changing paths if it’s something you want to do. Although one is never too old to learn. I wanted to change career paths and it took me 5 years to figure out to do what. And I feel so anxious that’s it too late since people my age are already settled. Bo’s trust me yore at the perfect point to decide. It’s never too late to do something you love 100%
@quackdiddyohso
Salut ❤️
Tu n’es vraiment pas seule, et ce que tu ressens est normal. Beaucoup d’entre nous à 20 ou 21 ans ont l’impression de devoir déjà tout savoir, mais la vérité, c’est que personne n’a vraiment sa vie “en ordre” à cet âge, même si ça en a l’air sur les réseaux.
Tu es quelqu’un de créatif, passionnée, et pleine d’idées, et c’est une force incroyable, même si ça peut sembler étouffant parfois. Aimer plusieurs choses ne veut pas dire que tu es perdue, ça veut dire que tu as plein de chemins possibles, et tu n’es pas obligée d’en choisir un seul tout de suite.
Changer de filière pour faire ce qui te passionne, comme le social media marketing, la mode ou l’art, peut être une belle étape vers la version de toi-même que tu veux devenir. Prends ton temps, fais un petit pas après l’autre, et rappelle-toi que recommencer, ce n’est pas échouer, c’est se respecter.
Et tu ne seras jamais une déception si tu restes fidèle à toi-même. Ecoute ton cœur et tout ira pour le mieux.
Courage, tu es bien plus forte que tu ne le penses.
On est là avec toi 🙏